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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want a realtionship with him! How do I tell him this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - i'v met up with my internet guy 3 times now, and we get on really well! i would like a relationship! he is quite shy, do u think i should be brave and sit him down and say," i like u alot! how do u feel?" or should i text him? or should i wait for him 2 say something? any ... (62 words)

We've known each other a long time and he's coming to visit. Would I be a slut if I slept with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - hiya, i met this lad on holiday over a year ago we have met up twice since thats all because of the distance! but we speak on messnger, phone and txting all the time, however he is coming up 2 stay with me for a few days soon, would he think i was a slut if i slept with him! or ... (76 words)

We had a casual relationship..now he wants more. What should I do?

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27 October 2006 (F) - What does it mean when you cant get your mind off a guy? We've shared sex and some talking, but recently he's opened up and said he thinks about me often and such....and basically i know he's begun to care about me. but, until he told me this, i never thought of him like that, ... (78 words)

I kissed the guy my best friend broke up with..now she's upset with me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Ive liked this boy for ages. Then i started going out with his friend. Then my bestfriend started going out with the boy i liked, they broke up last month. And last night i kissed him. I told my bestfriend shes really angry and upset. What should i do? ... (49 words)

I'm 20 and have no driver's licence. I feel jealousy toward teens who drive. How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I am 20 years old, and I still don't have a driver's license, and I feel jealous when I see teenagers driving vehicles by themselves. I am trying very hard to become good enough to get a license, but I am also trying to earn money for car insurance.... (49 words)

How do I cope with snoopy relatives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I have noticed that some relatives try to snoop in my personal life, and get into things that are absolutely none of their business. I don't hate them, but I don't want them interfering in my private life. I am an adult and I need some privacy.... (47 words)

My little nephew is trying to be like me. I am worried he's trying to grow up to fast? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I have a six-year-old nephew, who tries to be on the same page as me. I understand that he wants to feel more grown-up, but there are just some things that he will not be able to do, until he reaches a certain age, and I don't want him to feel pressured to act a certain way. I ... (82 words)

I am busy...how do I find a proper balance to fit all these things in my schedule?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I am having trouble with fitting school, a job, activities, and just having a good time all into one schedule. I know that there needs to be a balance of all these things in life, but right now I am in a jam.... (43 words)

Sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Ok, so I broke up with my bf 4 weeks ago after an on/off relationship of about a year. We were then sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday when he got a new girlfriend. But then the day after that he rang me saying he was lonely, came over and had sex. He also told his friend ... (105 words)

His mood changed really suddenly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F)

- Hi, I had the weirdest experience with my boyfriend tonight. We were collecting our scholarships and it was the first time my parents had met his. We hadnt seen each other for a week and he had been more distant than normal e.g texting me less, not calling etc. I didnt re... (279 words)

I've never turned down a guy in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I had a relationship with S for 4 months, and he had a mate, M, that i really liked as we really hit it off. But My relationship with S ended 4 weeks ago, and today M was hitting on me. I have some serious hang ups at the mo, part of the reason me and S broke up was because I ... (214 words)

what is the best way of asking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I am going to a dance and if I end up dancing with a guy who is not that close to me now and want to go out with him or to talk to him again what is the best way of asking?... (43 words)

I think he likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - there is a boy at my school who i really like.i think he likes me but am not really sure.we have never spoken .i allwys feel he is staring at me and we allways make eye contact and glance at eachother and he looks at me when we pass eachother.do you think he fancies me .please ... (58 words)

If you give somebody head can you tell if he cums

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - if you give someoe head can you tell if he cums? (in ur mouth) i gave head the other day, he seemed 2 enjoy it but i couldnttell if he had cum or not lol :S... (36 words)

I have touched my sister

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - i love my sister,she is younger than me with 10 years she is 26 , i had touched her twice during her sleeping and she had feel me but she made her self sleeping,and we touched each other in the swimming pool,but as we having fun in the water, please advice me?? thanks... (53 words)

I no longer feel physically attracted to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, we met at university where we were studying for the same degree and we got together 6 months after my previous boyfriend and I split up after a four year relationship. When I graduated last year (I was in the year above h... (308 words)

Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss and make out? What is appropriate for this age group.... (19 words)

Well, I'm no saint

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - Subject: Almost 20 years married, no sex for almost 8 - ready to finally leave. I never thought I'd be in this dilemma. I just hope this experience will help someone. I've been married to the sweetest and kindest woman I know for almost 20 years. When we married, I consid... (607 words)

Should i flirt with him or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

27 October 2006 (F)

- i really like this boy in school and he talks to me and he is single but should i flirt with him or not? ... (24 words)

He was perfect why did he change so quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - does he still love me as before? i have a relation for almost 5 years we were so perfect love each other. he always took care of me. ofcorse we had problems like any1 else. i noticed that after 2 years of our relation istarted to discover that he is moody. and when he is angry... (264 words)

he keeps giving strange looks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - hello. e here im falling for this boy who im friends with and he keeps giving strange looks. i think his friend n has told him. what should i do?... (30 words)

He acts like he doesn't care at all and now he's emailing another woman! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 1 1/2yrs now. Lately his career has been giving him many opportunities to travel and he picks up as much as he can and loves it. With hunting season and his being gone I haven’t seen him but two times in the past month. And he doesn’t even ... (138 words)

How do I remove the sexual tension and make our work environment more friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I just got married five months ago, we just recently moved right after getting married. I find myself now with a schoolgirl crush on my boss, who is about 15 years older than me and has a wife and toddler at home. He's really smart and attractive; I don't want to pursue ... (133 words)

Falling for someone who is already with someone!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - i am falling for this guy i know but he already has a girfriend what should i do? please help!... (20 words)

My fiancee online dating mistake, has me wondering ..if I should marry him? What do you all think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - My partner and I had an argument that lasted over several days. We've since made up but whilst using the computer I just found out that whilst we were not on speaking terms, he registered with a dating agency, advertising for another woman. When confronted he said he was s... (121 words)

He emails me everyday! That has to mean that he's interested...right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Can someone please suggest what I should do next! I have recently split up from my husband due mainly due to our lack of a sex life. I have also recently developed a very close friendship with a business associate. We email each other all day every day and occasionally... (258 words)

My partner cheated via texts, so should I cheat with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Well, i have been with my partner for just over 3 years and we have a son together. last year i found out he had been texting my best friend for 5 months we nearly split up over it but i tried for the sake of my son. Since then i think i have fallen out of love with him and i ... (135 words)

If you don't have sex, is it true that your vagina closes up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I lost my virginity this july, and i prob wont have sex for a while now! is it true that like your vagina closes up (and what does that really! mean by the way) Advice plzz... (36 words)

Don't feel like I've bonded with my husband-to-be's little fella...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I was and am sex mad - the man im marrying is also into sex but I wouldn't say he is my ultimate sexual partner - I love talking about sex, and I have always built up a willy relationship with my ex partners! In this case I dont feel a bond with my husband-to-be's penis . . ... (127 words)

We still do all the stuff we did as a couple..just that now there is no committment! Am I setting myself up to get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - im 18, my ex-bf broke up with me more than 2 months ago, he wanted space and told me i was too clingy and he didnt want the responsibility. Thing is we've stayed friends and getting closer and closer each day. I've tried to simply move on and cut contact but I can't because ... (182 words)

I broke his heart and left him. Now I am heartsick at the idea of him finding someone else! Why am I this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I was with a guy for nearly 7 years and was so happy with him. We moved in together and things started to change after about a year. I started to notice things about him that i could not stand and i began to feel bored of the routine and the predictable nature of our ... (312 words)

Why can't my fiancee understand why I love my kids more than her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (M)

- I was married for 9 years, but split with my wife just over a year ago, we have 3 children together. I have been engaged to another girl for 3 and a half months and love her dearly. We live 300 miles apart and I live close to my wife and kids. I still remain friends with my ... (300 words)

Worried about this long distance relationship--will it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - Hi, i have known this girl for about 8 months now. We talk most nights and text during the day. Its been established that we really do like eachother just we live too far away. I live near london and she lives near York. My last relationship with a girl was long distant and it ... (226 words)

Can a man tell if a women has orgasmed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - during sex' is the man know if woman cum or not?... (11 words)

Do I tell his new gf that he and I had sex? Does she really need to know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I've never felt so guilty in all my life. I slept with my ex (who i still have feelings for) who has a new gf. They'd only been going out for 2 days, but she's my age (16) and a virgin. What if they end up having sex? Everyone wants their first time to be special, and the ... (227 words)

I made out with my brother in law! We both knew it was wrong..so how do we cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - i know this isn't exactly a question, but i just needed to write this or tell someone! i was out last night and saw my brother in law! we made out, but both knew how wrong it was, i just feel awkward about the next time i have to see him.... (51 words)

My gf gets TOO wet and I don't feel anything. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now, and we are having sex often. When we start making out she gets really wet and I usually make her cum a few times before we start to make love. She really enjoys our sex and usually comes several times, which is all goo... (156 words)

Is kissing classed as cheating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids, If you are in a relationship do you see kissing someone else as cheating??... (19 words)

In love with my best friend, how can I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F)

- well where do i start. Im sort of in love with my best friend (male). We are really close and speak on the phone every night except for when either or us go on vacation. My other close friend told him i love him as i have done for a while, and he said he really liked me too, ... (151 words)

Our relationship: In a rut. That's what I told her and now she's dumped my ass

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (M)

- My relationship with my g/f is in a bit of a rut and the other night i pointed this out to her. We love each other and I don't want a split but would love to make it work. Anyway, i was over critical of the relationship and of my g/f. She is very 'sensitive' and all this 'cr... (203 words)

Girls and butterflies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (M)

- From my life experience there are two types of girls that I have liked: 1. I get butterflies in my stomach when I'm near them and I just don't know what to say because I'm so nervous... but I really relaly like them, and that feeling is something that I only have for some ... (160 words)

How can I ask my crush out without fear of rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Hi im 20 years old and i have a guy friend of mine who i work with who is also the some age. i have been crushing on this guy for awhile now. The only problem is that he is a real true hottie. i mean just drop dead got to get my hands on bod. He has alot of girls who ar... (241 words)

We've been dating a while and I please her sexually but she doesn't do me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and me have been dating a while. Well everytime we hang out she seems to always want me to do something sexual to her like finger her. But when it comes to me she dosen't like to do anything like give me head because she doesn't think she will do it right. How ... (81 words)

He just calls me up when he needs me and it's confused me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I've wrote on here before but here's the general situation. After 3 months of being perfect my bf and I broke up for 2wks because we had each kissed someone else (I had moved away a month prior to this), we were back 2gether for a week, then I visited a guy friend w/o telling ... (589 words)

Can you get addicted to masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - is it possible to become masturbation addicted? i have to masturbate at least once a day and is it normal?... (21 words)

I lost my virginity at 14, now I am 18. Will my bf notice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - i am not a virgin i lost it when i was 14, now i am 18 and been dating for 3 years.will my boyfriend notice eventhough i aked out i was... (31 words)

Am I going to be alone forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - My first love and I have been seeing each other since high school, I'm 34 now and recently divorced again...My ex has been married to the same woman all this time, however we have never really quit seeing each other. Now that I'm single I'm having a hard time understanding why ... (180 words)

How do I stop my crazy clinginess?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Me and my fiancee have been together for almost two years now and we have been living together for about 6 months. when he goes out with his "boys" or anyone for that matter, I get upset and mad at him for going out and leaving me all alone. I want to stay with me all the time. ... (97 words)

He tells me he has no money... but I found out he's been spending it all on eBay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - hello, i'm 31. have been with my guy for over 7 years. he is an apprentice solicitor about to qualify in december. for all these years i was the one to pay for the holidays of which there were many including 3 trips to the states.his money has gone up substantially over the... (184 words)

He used to work as a male escort, should I get out now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Its been seven years since my divorce and since this have met no one special, until recently when a man the same age as me has swept me off my feet. Tonight after a romantic meal we where beng honest about our past. He admitted he used to work as a male escort to women. He said ... (125 words)

He called me another name during sex,is he having an affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - My husband called me by another name while we were having sex. Does this mean that he is having an affair?... (21 words)

How can I forgive her for chatting to a guy online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - I am seeking advice as i do not know what to do, me and my fiance have been having a few problems which have now exploded into something i do not know how to deal with. we are having problems based on a health problem she is suffering from, and she has closed off herself to any ... (266 words)

He is married and and he keeps flirting and touching me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I have been letting a married man touch me for the past 3 years. He is 29 years old, married, and has 3 children. I honestly try to make a good effort and tell him to stop, but I can't. When he starts touching me, it feels good that I can't say no. There are times I ignore so I ... (160 words)

How can I tell him that I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (?) - Okay so there's this guy that i like and i'm pretty sure that he likes me, but i'm not possitive. If i go somewhere then he tends to go there too, and he sits by me and stuff. But when i leave him comments on myspace he doesn't comment back. then again he doesn't often comment ... (78 words)

He is neglecting me for porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

27 October 2006 (F)

- hi, i am 19 and my bf is 23 we have been togeth for almost 4 years, for about 1 month now i have noticed my bf is less intrested in having sex with me, we have only done it once this month, he said its because of the medication his on and its hard to cum, he says its just the ... (175 words)

I want to lose my virginity to my ex, how do I ask her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up back in August. I took it really hard, even though we only went out for a month. She went away for a month after that, and then when she came back, we hooked up twice. Now it's about 5 months later, and we haven't hooked up or anything since ... (241 words)

Should I ask him out even though I have feelings for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I haven't ever had a proper relationship even though I am 19. I really fancy this guy in my year at uni and have done so for ages, but am way to shy to make the first move. However I really met another guy who i like but not quite so much, who is younger than me who i barely ... (114 words)

Ladies...Can you still feel a man inside you when he is not thrusting or moving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - Hi ladies Can you still feel a man inside you when he is not thrusting or moving?... (18 words)