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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would this non virgin younger guy think it's weird to be dating me..an older woman who is a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi I have a question, I am 24 and I am still a virgin -I like this guy and he is 20 and he likes me too he has asked me out a few times but I always say no, because it was a choice of mine to stay a virgin and its still my choice, but would he think it weird goin out with som... (96 words)

She called me a spineless a**hole and she cheats! I love her so why is she like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - hi, i'll get straight to the point. im in love with a woman whom i have recently split up from for the second time in 4 months. crazy eh?? i moved in with her at the start and everything was more or less perfect. after about a year id heard she had been cheating with a lot of ... (269 words)

My ex gf was kissing me and hugging me! Was it because I told her about another girl I liked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Hi all, well i kissed my ex gf at the weekend after she asked me if she could kiss me and as we started kissing she started holding my hand an we both started to embrace each other and i asked her later on that night if she regretted us kissing and she said nope not at... (211 words)

My man's penis won't get hard! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have sex about 5 times a week, but the past few days he is unable to get hard. One night I gave him oral sex and a hand job and he orgasmed perfectly fine. Is there something wrong with me that my man's penis wont get hard or is it him? Any suggestions on ... (62 words)

Negative actions and thoughts are causing me to lash out at my bf. Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Iam 15 and my bf is a bit older then me at first it was great, but i just get angry with him for no reason what so ever i just go of at him for no reason i just turn really selfish it is really causing big promlems i can never really get the right words to explain it its like ... (113 words)

Do men prefer girls who are easy or are they scared of girls looking for love and stability?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F)

- Do men prefer girls who sleep around and are scared of girls looking for sexual and love stability? What is best to get them mental about you? TA... (29 words)

He said he had orgasmed in my mouth and I couldn't tell!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - i gave head the other day 4 the first time! is it normal to have (sorry 2 go in2 details lol) lots of spit in your mouth?? he said he had cum and i couldnt tell :S ... (37 words)

My friend wants to revenge cheat on her husband and I'm encouraging it! Am I wrong to do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F)

- My best friend isa doctor and she works a long time everyday, she earns a lot of money and has a little daughter and a civil servant husband, Her husband is very nice and takes care of the little girl but one night he was unfaithful and passed his wife a non problematic but ... (154 words)

Does it mean anything when a lad gets a hard on thinking of you in your underwear???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

24 October 2006 (F)

- does it mean anythig if a lad gets a hard on over thinking of you in your underwear?... (18 words)

Should I wear make-up or no???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F)

- Do guys who dislike makeup on women ALWAYS feel this way? (Hope some guy will answer.) This coming weekend am going to a fancy social event with a guy. I've been trying to get back together with him for awhile and at the moment we really seem to be geling again! BUT he pr... (120 words)

Am I average height and weight for a 16 year old?

This question has 188 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - hi can anyone tell me the average weight for a 16 year old. iam 136 pounds and 5feet 8 inches. is this normal?... (23 words)

We still love each other the only reason we broke up was his anger issues!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a a year broke up over the weekend. He came over last night, just because I had some quetions that I needed answer so I could accept it and move on. However.. all we got out of it was that we still love eachother, and the reason we broke up is because ... (235 words)

If we keep writing and getting to know each other like this will things be better when he comes home???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hey everyone, I live in delaware, and this guy I'm seeing is staying in Pittsburg P.A for three months. We hit it off really well before he left, and hes already wrote me 2 times. if we keep writting eachother and getting to know eachother through letters do you think wh... (65 words)

I want to ask this girl to the school dance but unsure whether my mate is thinking the same!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - hi! there seems to be a trouble with me a friend. i want to ask this girl to the school dance but i think that he does aswell. i haven't said anything to him. he begins to act all strangely around her. he seems to be unsure and slightly nervous. also he tries to show hi... (123 words)

When we was together I put on alot of weight and he cheated on me...now I've lost the weight he is hanging around again!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Please help My boyfirend and I broke up 3-4 moths ago, after 6 years being together. We had a very good relationship,but not perfect. Since I started going out with him, i gained a lot a lot of weight and it started to bother him that i was letting myself go, and he was scar... (421 words)

He said he was busy with his mates and when I did see him he has a love bite on his neck!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 2 weeks and everything was going really well, i didnt see him at the weekend as he said he was busy with his mates. When i saw him yesterday he had a love bite on his neck which is not mine. I asked him about him and he said it was his ex which ... (126 words)

He seems to have a crush on me should I write him a letter???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Yesterday I ran into this guy that I have known for two years, and he seems to have a crush on me. I would like to write him a letter to tell him that I feel very flattered, but I don't want his parents to worry, he still lives with them, and he will be turning 18 in two ... (124 words)

My brother won't stop making fun of me...how can I make him stop???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I am 20 years old, and I have a 36-year-old brother who really likes to pick on me and make fun of me, especially when he thinks that I can't hear him, and I really can, even if I ask him to stop. In fact, my other two brothers can't stand him either, and don't want to be ... (100 words)

I still think about the other guy I like and it feels like I'm cheating on him!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I really like these two guys but I am now going out with one of them, i still think about this other guy and it feels asthough im cheating on him,even though im not. But even when i go out with someone it only lasts for a month and then i dont know what happens? Please ... (59 words)

I keep getting emotional on the phone to him before he leaves for a long time and I don't want him to think he is hurting me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I have the most wonderful relationship with my boyfriend but he works overnight and sometimes I'm a week not seeing him..but we talk every night on the phone when he works...I'm 21, and independent, have my own apartment...so it's not a dependency problem...But I've always been ... (126 words)

What kind of teasing do boys so when they fancy you???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - hiya i wanna know if this boy fancies me, he brushes past me delibratly in the corridor, he pokes my cheek for some reason hehe when i pass him, he teases me constently (by the way what kind of teasing do boys do when they fancy you???) ... (49 words)

I really like her what shall I do to know if she likes me too???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Hi I'm 13 and i realy like this girl i know and I'm not sure if she likes me. What shall i do?... (23 words)

How can you make a guy want you more and be the one to want and ask for it to be official???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - What can a woman do to make a guy want her more. I have been seeing a guy (we are not yet official) but I want to keep him interested and would like us to be official, however I would like him to be the one to tell me he wants it to be official. Thank you. xx... (62 words)

I give him BJ's but he seems adverse to giving me oral. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - My bf and i have been going out for about 5 weeks now and really getting into the sex side of things, ect. Anyway, the problem is that during that time, i've given him 2 blow jobs and he hasn't gone down on me once,which i personal is unfair. He told me that he doesn't like ... (119 words)

Why does he always pull out knowing I'm close!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - The last few times that i've had sex with my bf,he always pulls out of me so that he doesn't cum inside, but the thing is he knows when im about to cum because i make a few noises, but always seems to put out just as im about to have an orgasm and he knows that. So why does he ... (127 words)

How can he really be over the relationship after just 2 days???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Is it really that possible for my ex to get over our serious relationship after 2 days after we broke up? The day after we broke up a friend of ours said that you could tell that he was bummed but 2 days later he acted like there was nothing wrong......... I mean our rela... (109 words)

What are good romantic background music to play while making love? Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - when you have sex is it better to have romantic music on in the background? if it is why? and what songs would you have on?... (26 words)

Should I arrange to meet up with the ex again or will I be risking heartache?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Do I arrange to see my ex? I am about to move back to the area I happily lived in for 5 years with my ex. I originally moved away when he left me because it was so sad being there without him but I actually missed my "home" as I've grown to see it. I have been very depressed ... (217 words)

He has issues with bigger girls...are we just friends or is he trying to get over the fact I'm a 16???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I have a guy friend that i like but he has issues with bigger girls, we spend 90% of our time together and the other 10% on the phone talking. He says that we are just friends but i get different vibes, he flirts and I stay at his house alot (overnight). Do you think he is ... (76 words)

I'll feel more confident if I get bigger breasts...do breast enlarging pills work???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - i've really small boobs i measure 34AA they're really small, it's like nothing but a nipple because i'm really thin. should i take breast enlarging pills? which ones work better? pills or creams? i'm only 17 though maybe it'll grow but i'm getting impatient, i know of a lot of ... (119 words)

He wants me to give him and handjob...how long do I do this for???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - iv been seeing this boy for about 5 months now and he has asked if i would give him a hand job which im completely comfortable with, i nearly gave one boy one before but we got interupted so my only question is how long do i do it for? too short and he wont have fun, but too ... (88 words)

I don't love him anymore but he is the only good thing is my life...would it be wrong to get back with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - 2 Weeks ago my bf and I agreed to break it off. I agreed because I thought that he was the reason that i was never happy anymore, and i felt as though I had lost my identity. We've been single for 2 weeks and after the initial 3 days or so when I was enjoying being able to ... (200 words)

His ex is making our life a living hell...what can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi all, I have asked for advice before. I feel i am going out of my mind. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years now. We are really happy, apart from his ex. She just wont let go, even though she didnt want him. She keeps making up lies and is always making ... (173 words)

Doe anyone here find it hard to get along with their Mother-in- law?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi just a quick question, does anyone here find it hard to get on with their mother-in-law/mother-in-law to be? Me and my fiance have been together for almost a year and even now I find it hard to get on with his mother. She drives me mad! She's so immature and I don't mean... (204 words)

I asked him the 'status' of our relationship...I wonder-am I pressuring him too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have been feeling rather down in the dumps as I have been seeing a guy for nearly 2 months. Got drunk and asked the status of 'us' everything a guy dreads! He didn;t want to discuss it and I feel this could have made him not as interested as he previously has b... (174 words)

Do any of you see your exes as good friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, could you see your ex as a friend?... (10 words)

Would letting him know my true feelings...backfire on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I have a really good relationship with a guy, we are not going out, but see each other up to 3 times a week and talk via text and on the phone every single day. He knows I have feelings for him, and has confessed to my close friend that really likes me, is very attracted to me ... (272 words)

I'm a 25 yr old who loves having sex with men! Is this right or wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I am 25 years old and i want to know if i have a problem, as i have slept with about 80 - 90 men, and i feel a bit bad but i love it. I'm single and i quite like it that way, because when i'm in a relationship i just want to sleep with someone else. Most of the time i may be a ... (165 words)

She is ill but I feel she is being unfair and selfish on me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F)

- My best friend suffers from cancer ans she's under treatment, She is from a village and has a flat in my town. She is very nice but she is very messy about time or dates arrrives late,changes appointments or asks me for her to buy take away food the very moment I decide to go ... (354 words)

I want to know if Dear Cupid is a free chat room service or not!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F)

- I want to know if the Dear Cupid is a "Free" chat Room Service or not. ... (17 words)

I have a boyfriend, but I like this other guy. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi guys, I am 13 years old. I have a boyfriend, and there is also a guy that really likes me. I thought since I have a boyfriend I can't go with him. But later on I got used to him, and he was really nice and sweet. But in the past few days he's ignoring me and not talking to ... (73 words)

Unsure I love my wife, but I fancy a work colleague. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Have been married 11 years and have a son who is 9. I have recently been having feelings that I no longer love my wife or even find her attractive anymore. I have told my wife that I am unsure whether I love her or not and she pursuaded me to work on it with her. In this 6 ... (104 words)

I want to continue this affair but don't have the strength to break it off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I have a problem and i need advice. I met a man from Texas last month.He is a singer,songwriter. I live in Nashville and he has been coming here for the 12 months. Well the night i met him we had spent the night together. i then spent 2 more nights with him. he was really a lot ... (218 words)

I'm 16 and he's 33 but we aren't in each other's arms yet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Iv'e fallen for a guy who im really sure likes me to, but for reasons apart from the age gap he can't make a move and Im to shy, plz help! x x (Im sixteen, he's thirty three.)... (42 words)

I can't stop masturbating and people are noticing

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - hello- i am 15 years old, and this is going to sound a bit odd...but i cant stop playing with my vagina. i get the urge to just slip my fingers in, even at inapropriate times! its becoming embarassing and people ask what im doing...sometimes i dont really i start it! im scare... (68 words)

He left and hasn't given me a satisfactory explanation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - i have been in a relationship for four years. We finally moved together three months ago, now he left because he said it is to much pressure for him, but diddn't really explain. He says he loves me and misses me but still hasn't said he wants to come home. He also says he will ... (72 words)

Communication breakdown (long post)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Yesterday morning my boyfriend calls me and He said he feels we need to take a break, or rather he needs some time to decide if he want's to be with me or not. He said his friends brought a couple girls over to his apartment and he flirted with them. He wished he could have ... (493 words)

I love my boyfriend but all we seem to do is fight!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and i love him to bits, but all we do is fight and it seems like he doesnt care about me. Whenever he has a problem he wont talk to me about it he just takes his anger out on me. We have very little communication between us and i ... (78 words)

While we was friends and getting to know each other I was sleeping with my ex...do I tell my current boyfriend???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi, Im a 22 year old who is in a good relationship with a 36 year old. age gap aside......... before we got together we were friends for a whole year. we shared a bed occasionally and sometimes got frisky but didnt have sex. meanwhile i was on and off with my ex.....by on and... (145 words)

I like this girl and I'll be seeing her at my mates birthday what do I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6388 days ago

24 October 2006 (?) - i fancy dis 14yr old gurl frm my school. i'm 16. we met on my mates birthday. she's been really nice to me and continues to talk to me at school although we only met for 3hours! my mate which is also her friend asked her if she is single. and yes she is single and she doesn't ... (139 words)