New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

60160 questions, 259137 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in October, 2006, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (25), 2 (64), 3 (55), 4 (55), 5 (57), 6 (44), 7 (39), 8 (40), 9 (54), 10 (62),
11 (43), 12 (44), 13 (41), 14 (55), 15 (46), 16 (65), 17 (61), 18 (58), 19 (51), 20 (50),
21 (32), 22 (45), 23 (51), 24 (51), 25 (57), 26 (57), 27 (58), 28 (37), 29 (60), 30 (49),
31 (56),

Archived questions from: 21 October, 2006 (see latest questions)

(More questions from October, 2006)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Should i divorce and hurt my son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I am married man for 18 years, i have a son of 13 ,the problem is i lost all intrest in my wife, over several years i have cheated before, just typical one night stands, now i have met a woman i work with , been sexually involved with her for about 9 months now,this woman i ... (266 words)

I think this guy who likes me, may be an abusive cheater type! What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - Is the guy I'm kind of talking to abusive and a cheater? He started talking to me in the spring while he still had a girlfriend, (he soon broke up with her) and then I broke it off because I didn't feel ready for another relationship since I was on the rebound. He freaked out ... (144 words)

Rock Horroe Show Hallowwen party comin up-I want to go as the 'sexy maid'. Any suggestions to doing this inexpensively?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F)

- Might be wrong place but... My friend is having a Rocky Horror Show halloween party. I want to look sexy as the boy that i like is going, how can i do this (and go as the sexy maid) inexpensivly?... (43 words)

Wiil the age gap scare this girl away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

21 October 2006 (?) - i fancy this 14yr old girl. im 16. wen i get to know her more i will ask her out. if she does'nt like me will this scare her away? i mean i'm not sure if she has even thought about me! we only met for 3 hours on a mates birthday so far! but after i known her for longer iz it a ... (72 words)

I'm his first sexual partner but how can I make our sex more than just the sex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F)

- Hi, I've been with my fiancee for almost 3 years now, and while we have our ups and downs, our sex life has always been rather..boring... I always took it as his being in experinenced and let it go because I'm the first girl he's been with sexually even though we're 26 and 27 ... (250 words)

I'm thinking of giving blood...will it hurt and is it dangerous as I'm only 15??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F)

- dear all cupids, recently ive been thinking bout giving blood at my local blood bank but im scared its gonna hurt me is it? i hate needles and pain is it a good idea? or can it be dangerous to me im only 15? thanks xxx... (48 words)

We split up but stayed friends...she asked to kiss me and we did now I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Hi all, i'm an 18 yr old male, i used to go out with a girl who is 17. however about 6 weeks ago we broke up for reasons. however we have stayed really good friends and stuuf, an today i went upto Cumbria to see her and we were sat iin the car chillin like ya do and s... (156 words)

We got a deep connection and call each other like brother and sister but I feel more than that...should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - i've known this girl for nearly 3 years now. there's always this particular chemistry whenever we're together. we share the same passion for music, pondered about the same things, and even share the same belief. we confide a lot in each other, mostly feelings about people and ... (279 words)

We can't be seen together so only meet once a month to a hotel together!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - i have been seeing my girlfriend for 6 years but for reasons we only go out once a month to a hotel on a thursday (because we cant be seen together)our sex life is great but when she cant make it on thursday ive asked her to change to a tuesday (her only other available night ... (112 words)

How can I build my confidence or get rid of the acne??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - hi! i am 16 years old and have acne on my face along the sideburns and around my neck and some on my nose. i have tried creams but nothing seems to work. i think that it deters some girls from speaking to me but there are still many who think i am a really nice guy. an... (77 words)

Which is the best way to promote self esteem? Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F)

- Which is the best way to promote self steem?... (9 words)

She left me for her married boss and now living with him so why does she keep texting me wanting to meet up and thing??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I split up with my ex 12 months ago now and I am trying my best to move on,I am about 95% there at the moment. She left me for her married boss with 3 kids who told her his heart has never known so much love! and loads of other bull and she fell for it. Anyway as far ... (309 words)

I didn't feel well and she told me she didn't know if she wanted to be with my anymore so I left...can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I made a terrible mistake at my gfs formal/prom nite, i wasnt well all day but didnt want to tell her as i thought i could push through the whole nite, but it got worse, so i thought it was best i left,she was off running about with her friends anyway,i felt v alone.She had ... (236 words)

Both married to other people and I want to stop this affair!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 October 2006 (F) - How do we stop the affair? 11 months going ,sex 4 times a week ,but both are married to diffrent people not each other.... (24 words)

He had sex with me and dumped me. Now he's getting cozy with me again! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - Im 15 recently went out with a guy who i really liked and slept with him too. Except he dumped me a week after. I still like him and recently when weve been hangin out hes started cuddling me and gettin abit cosy with me. I dont know if he likes me now excpet i do know that he ... (76 words)

Have had only 2 sexual experiences and both were lousy. Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - Im 15 years old and hav had sex with 2 people. On neither occasion has me or the guy came and the sex wasn't really that good....am i doing something wrong?? ... (33 words)

Love my bf but have urges to have sex with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a long time but i have the urge to have sex with someone else. should we be together i do love him very much?... (31 words)

Why is she acting like we aren't together? Any advice appreciated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I'm not sure what to do in my situation. I have been with my girlfriend of a year and 10 months and we used to live together up until last saturday. she was driving to work and got pulled over for driving with no license and no insurance she called her mom and the next thing ... (270 words)

I love anal sex but I have concerns about cleanliness.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 565 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - I really love anal sex, but latley I have faeces still left in my rectum even after bowel movement and washing. Why is this? Is it to do with my diet? It's very embarassing and spoiling my fun. ... (38 words)

He cheated on her, treated her badly and she went back to him! Why would she do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. I love her dearly and really want to be with her again. Before we dated she was with her ex for 2 years. During this 2 years this guy treated her really badly, he doesn't really care for her and cheated her and they broke up. Then s... (578 words)

Is my penis big enough for sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 97 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - hi would my penis just under 6 inches erect be large enough for sex? also which position is best for a penis which has a smaller girth?... (27 words)

Married but in love with a younger woman! Having a hard time with these feelings...what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Hello, I am married since 1994, one son and living quite well with my wife up to now. Some 7 months ago I got acquainted with a younger woman (10 years; 40 versus 30 years old) and as I saw her for the very first time, I got a strange sensation about her... Soon after I felt c... (235 words)

For no reason, he shouts at me! It's happening all the time and I don't know why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - I love my bf a lot and i take him seriuosly he loves me too,but off late he gets irritated fast and shout at me 4 reasons known best to him, the next day he makes up to me and i forget it but this keeps happening all the time.i dont want to lose him and at times i feel iam ... (99 words)

Urine sample

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - I heard that if you don't pee after sex you will get a yeast infection. Is this true?... (18 words)

Now that we live together, he's seems to have gone off sex. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 568 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently moved in together after being apart for a year. He lived in New Zealand and I live in Canada. He moved here to be with me. Our relationship is great. He is very affectionate. He gives me little kisses or cuddles me and gets up to get me stuff when I ... (476 words)

16 chasing 14 - is this ok?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 561 days ago

21 October 2006 (?) - do girls really care if they are goin out with older boys? i'm 16 and i fancy this 14year old girl. i know my friends will not be happy with me because just coz she is younger than us apart from my best mate who supports me! but my mate say's i might have a better chance coz ... (169 words)

My crush is my slave for spirit week !!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - Ok then I hope you can help lol Ok yea yea I'm in high school still but I really like this guy. I'm pretty sure he knows, it kind of got around but not every one knows. So there's a slim chance he doesn't know. Anyways I guess you need to know some things about us, right? Umm ... (402 words)

What is acceptable timing to become engaged?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - how long do you think a couple should date before they get engaged? Just please give me some idea. Then after the engagement how long should they wait before they get married? my boyfriend says that an engagement is the same thing as marriage...you know it is a committment. ... (54 words)

Lost in my self hatred

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - i need some support. or advice. i began dating my first boyfriend 3 years ago, almost exactly. i'm now almost 20 and he just turned 22. he's cheated, lied, hid things, blah blah in the past. he hasn't changed and i know he won't. he's very insensitive and a bad communic... (352 words)

Obsessive Compulsive Love Disorder

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Is it obsessive to still love someone your were with for 4 years when you broke up 10 months ago, or is it a sign of true love? When does true love become obsession?... (34 words)

Life's a bitch... And then I married one - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, well I have been here before and some very kind people have given me some very good advices. my story is very sad, it is like what it only happens in the films and I can't get over it, I think I am going mad. I married about six months ago, we had our probl... (591 words)

My brother has this 'tickling' thing going on and I'm not sure how to deal with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - Hya, i really hope that you can put my mind at ease about something i found out this evening that's got me very confused. My brother loves teasing and tormenting me, he's forever playing jokes on me and ever since our teens-we're both in our 20's now-he's tickled me on a ... (187 words)