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I'm wet so why don't I actually feel that horny???

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Question - (12 October 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2010)
A female , anonymous writes:

Sometimes when im having sex with my bf, although im wet down stairs, i dont really feel that horny. Why would i sometimes feel that way?

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A female reader, nikkipow229 United States +, writes (28 June 2010):

i have the same problem !!! and i'm only 30 years old i don't know what to do !!! i need help to!!

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A male reader, TheActor +, writes (16 October 2006):

hehe, well guys get erections like 20 times a day, without any reason at all. I'm guessing it is a similar situation, maybe try and get closer to him emotionally, or change something around, definately talk to him though, and if you're not embaressed while talking to him, chance are he won't be embaressed either =)

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (12 October 2006):

eddie agony auntWomen are more lubricated a certain times of the month. It's just that way.

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A reader, Rainee United States +, writes (12 October 2006):

Rainee agony auntBecause the two aren't neccessarily connected. It's normal to be pychologically disconnected (not horny) and physically aroused. Your body can respond to the right touches, but because of women's multi-tasking nature, you can be thinking about groceries you need to buy instead of "hey, this feels good, mmm". It might be a leftover mechanism from the days way back when sex was only for conceiving and for the pleasure of the man. The body NEEDS to respond, i.e. getting wet, so the woman isn't harmed by a penis ripping into her when she isn't really in the mood.

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A female reader, Katylouise +, writes (12 October 2006):

because your not as excited as normal i think when you feel horny your heart rate changes and you go tingly when you see them. Try not to think about it too much and do something that will make you horny pull out handcuffs and blindfold your boyfriend being domineering might turn you on?

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