| A
male
,
JackBauer
writes: Now that I'm single again, I want to go out and meet new women, my problem is I get real nervous when trying to talk to them and sound like a complete idiot. I don't talk loud enough, stumble over words, etc. I always fear them saying NO or that they have a BF. I've always liked girls that come to me better for this fact.Also, nowadays, it seems that all these nice girls are stuck with what I like to call a$$holes, who think their $hit don't stink. They have, for lack of a better term, that fake MTV or whatever look. All prepped out and dressing like they're black, I don't know how to explain it. (Not meant to be racist)What happened to the days of the honest, chivalrous guy, like myself, is it true that chivalry is dead? I'm just a regular everyday guy and hate seeing all these people with these fake images.I went off topic, but is there anymore good girls out there? And what can I do to get some confidence to talk to them?
View related questions:
confidence Reply to this Question |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, helpful girl  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 you know you are exactly like my man he hates the fake boobs the white girls dressing up as black girls, fake nails and all that stuff, but yes there is still nice girls out there im 1 well i must be cus i ent none of them you expalined the thing is where you look. say for exampel if your looking in clubs 70%chance you wont find the right girl there! you might find 1 in a pub a girl with no reputation, and also you can look for ever like i tryed and 1 day i gave up and just as i did i was sitting in a local pub called the trident and thats where i met my man who im still with today! also think about how youve met other girls b4 and try that. and when you walk up to a girl maybe if your with your freinds saying something to get them to encourage you, or repeating in your head no im not going to be nervoused if she say no i ent really loseing anything am i. if she says yes i may gain something!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006): There's plenty of nice girls out there too - maybe your just not looking in the right places or for the right girl... And another thing - girls and guys alike always fear been rejeceted and by someone saying no to them!! Your not alone there I can tell you! When you meet a girl you like, know in your head what you want to say to them before hand, have a few topics to talk about but don't say it like you have them learned off by heart! Most girls prefer guys who are natural and act themselves, who make them laugh and feel good about themselves... Go out be yourself and enjoy yourself too
...............................
|
