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writes: i'm met my boyfriend 3 years ago when i was 17. Recently we have started to grow apart. Things have changed as we have got older and it has effected us more than we ever thought it would. We've both admittd that we have felt unhappy within the last few weeks but we don't want to let what we've got go. He is my first love and i m trying to keep what we have going strong but do you think it can actually work? Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 yes it can as me and my first love went through that about 4 months ago, what we did i moved out and we chose days well see each other mondays,wensdays,and i stop saturdays. and it as done so much good because we have time apart to miss each other and the littel and big things we do for each other now when we see each other all we want to do is cuddel and kiss! maybe tring that but picking your own days instead! make it max 4times a week or else you still wont miss each other. also explaining to him what you want to do to make your ralationship work and if it doesnt work after that i think it is seriously the end!
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (12 October 2006):
I was sixteen when the same thing happened to me and we grew apart and split when i was 18 but even though i loved him more than anything when i look back i now it was the right decision for both of us. But it might be totally different for you and only time will tell if you are meant to stay together or not but in the meantime just relax and have fun make the most of all the time you spend together and do things with him that you wouldnt normally do.
Best of luck
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