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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I just let her be hard nosed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - Our friends recently got married outside of the country and their parents are having a wedding celebration party for all the folks stateside who couldn't go to the wedding. The wedding "party" is also fairly far away, 11 hours by car, and since there are four of us {me, my ... (276 words)

Should I give her space, or try to win her attention back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - I need help... I mean badly. My girlfriend she used to be so into me and she would be like so happy to see me and calls me in the morning to say good morning and now she doesn't do it anymore. She usually smiles alot when I'm around and wants to break rules at her job by ... (144 words)

What do you think of men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - i think a man is like a emty vesel most of the time just waiting for a woman to fill him up. they pretend they are manly but mostly a mother brings up a son not a husband,so by the time we get them it seems like we gain a son rather than a partner.confident or shy i think down ... (68 words)

I was raped and now I can't be intimate with my BF

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - i am very nearly 14 years old and am very confused. i have a great boyfriend who i love very, very much and have been with him for 5 months.he is 2 years older than me. when i was in year 5 so about 9-10 yrs old, my mate was dating an older guy that was 14 and she was 11. i ... (333 words)

if he wants me to be a better in the bedroom, shouldn't he use not just the bedroom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - my partner says im no good in the bedroom but my reasons are as follows:-my partner stays in the bedroom all the time, yeh he goes to work when he feels and also to the toilet and the fridge to get a beer. apart from that hes in the bedroom....my daughter thinks hes a permanent ... (272 words)

I'm asking for advice of grown adults who have minds

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - I need your advice... I bet you all get sick of teenagers like me. I'm telling you this and asking for your advice because most of you are grown adults who have minds, and have been through it before and know what to do, or know what advice to give at least. Well, here goes.... (1599 words)

How can I ask her to the school dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - Hey! I am a shy 17 year old guy and i want to ask this girl to a school dance. how should i approach her and what should i say? we get on fine at school and she seems to be a plesant person.... (52 words)

How can I rediscover my identity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - How can i rediscover my identity? I adore my boyfriend but I miss being single so much that it's really getting me down. I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy, and i've gotten far enough into the relationship so that were beyond the 'honeymoon period' and now the ... (178 words)

I am angry that the attention from this guy made her feel good

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - I had a bit of a jealousy issue. My wife was talking to a man who approached her in a night club while she was on vacation. It was a resort town and people were from all over. The reason I mention that is because it I think in those situations, people tend to mingle more and ... (374 words)

I just found out that my bf is going to shipped in 2 days!! It's tearing me apart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - ok here is the problem my boyfriend got out of Basic 4 months ago where he promised me that he had signed up for the reserves so he would not be shipped out well I just found out that he is going to shipped in 2 days!! and I dont know how to handle this I thought that we would ... (82 words)

Do girls prefer the confident or shy type?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - hey girls! do you prefer a confident person or a shy person who tends to think about people's feelings.... (19 words)

I am head over heels, but is he in it just for the sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm sat here upset and confused and need some sort of advice. I've been seeing my boyfriend for the last 5 months, in which time i've fallen head over heels in love with him. I can't imagine life without him. The thing is it keeps crossing my mind that maybe he is just in ... (290 words)

I have been offered to live in a flat with 2 girls. I really need a place to live, but I don't know how my long distance gf would feel. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - hi my problem is that i have been havin a long distance relationship for a few months now and love her to bits(despite what people say about long distance relationships i really do love her)anyway i have been offered by a pair of girls to move into a flat wiv them and one of m... (106 words)

I really fancy my gf's friend. We flirt all the time, but she has a bf. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - ive been seeing a girl for almost two years now and im starting to like her friend and she has a boyfriend that has been almost two years now....we flirt alot and have even had a pretty intese lip stare...should i tell her that i like her so i can see if she likes me and then ... (100 words)

When a woman has a multiple orgasm, what is the average number?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - What is the average number for a woman to have a multiple orgasm?... (13 words)

My orgasms are weaker since becoming sexually active, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - Since becoming sexually active my orgasms have changed. They're a lot weaker, and it's not just sex it's also masturbation. Is this normal?... (23 words)

Is it true that all men want is sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - hi im 14, is it true that all men want is sex? is it true that they dont care about your personality, they only care about looks and sex? thats all they want from girls? ... (38 words)

Why is it taking so long to get over my ex? Its been 7 months!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - hi im 15 and used to go out with this boy the same age as me that i had a massive crush on. then he dumped me for some reason. i was really upset. but that was 7 months ago and i still cant stop thinking about him and i still wanna go back out with him, even though i havent e... (98 words)

Am I like a deposited house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend put a deposit on a house, and then before proceding any further, checked out every single house that could possibly be better before completing the deal. I wonder if that is what is secretly happening to us. That I am the deposited house.... (49 words)

I feel nothing when having sex with my husband. Please advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - I'm 30 years old, my husband is 39 years old; we've been married for 2 years.We have problems in sex, mainly I have a problem, I feel nothing while having sex with my husband. Please advise.... (36 words)

I want to tell her how I feel, but am scared of rejection. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - i met my best friend back about 9 months ago. we were both in relationships, but immediately had very strong chemistry. after talking about it, we decided that ignoring it would be best, as we both had ties elsewhere. we became very close friends rather quickly, and one ... (284 words)

Did my fellow students like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (M)

- I'm taking a year out before I go to uni. All my friends have gone to uni so I'm on my own. Yet at my sixth form, people seem to be having more parties than last year when I was there. I realise that I've only been to 4 or 5 parties when I was at sixth form. Whilst already ... (100 words)

I am 21, but my 54 year old partner can't have sex with me. Is there anything that can help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - hi i am 21 i have been with my partner 1 and a half years now the only trouble is he is a lot older than me he is 54 i lost his wife before we got together. my problem is he cant have sex with me is there anything that could possibly help.... (54 words)

How can I tell my girlfriend I need time to get my life organised?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - I have recently become involved with my long-time friend in a long distance relationship. She comes from a totally different background to me, and she currently lives with her ex-boyfriend in a flat. She is unable to afford this flat on her own, but I live too far away from ... (139 words)

I am not accepted into my boyfriends circle of friends. What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - I have been with a guy for 7 months now. He often goes out on Friday nights with friends from school, but never invites me. I organized a party for him and invited his school friends. He didn't introduce me to any of them and when someone asked him if I was his girlfriend, he ... (100 words)

Will our rough patch pass with time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - I think my 4 month relationship has grown stale. There's still the good bits that we had before when all i can think about is how much i love him and how i want to spent the rest of my life with him, but a lot of the time when i'm with him or without him i just feel sort of ... (145 words)

My boyfriend has been texting other girls, now he doesn't want to talk about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - hi there need some help!! i had a big arugement with my bf last over him texting another girl but the more we argued the more i found out. i found out that there wasnt just 1 girl he was texting but 3. he told me they were just friends of his which i thik may be true but he met ... (288 words)

I regret ending our relationship, but now he ignores me.

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7 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I broke up with my bf 3 days ago and it has been tough on me. We've been together for 17 months and I made a silly mistake. We were going through some hard times and i got scared and ended the relationship. That seem day I was thinking and realized... (152 words)

My boxfriend can only seem to climax through oral. Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend finds it easy to orgasm and come in my mouth but he cannot do it inside my vagina. I wonder why; could it be that my vagina is too loose or is it some kind of a problem he has?... (42 words)

She said that she will think about taking me back, but right now she just wants to be alone and is taking advantage of my good nature.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - Well, Me and my gf have been dating alittle over a year now, im 22, he's 21. 2 weeks ago she broke up with me, she says she need some time to be alone and that she wants some space, and that she lost feelings for me.... I really love her, i still do, i would do anything for ... (428 words)

My casual guy always makes nasty comments. Why is he acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 5 months on a casual basis,we get really great and the sexual relationship is really good.but he is always saying when we go to places,i bet you bring all the blokes here.and am i seeing some else,and acting like it wouldnt bother him.Whys he ... (53 words)

How can I dissuade this boy from moving schools?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F)

- please help me there is a boy i really love and he says he likes me to but his best friend is moving schools and she ignored him for a year because she became popular and she never put him on her friends pages on her website and when was wasnt popular anymore she went back to ... (109 words)

How can I get this guy to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - Okay. I really like this one guy, and I want him to ask me out more than anything! But he's either shy or uninterested, or not noticing, or something. Because I can see something when I look in his eyes (cheesy, I know) and there's definitely something important. But he won't ... (71 words)

Why has she started treating me so badly? I have done everything she asked.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - Everything right now feels so nightmarish. It's really a long story, but the short version is this: I started dating an amazing girl early summer last year. Everything was going very well, until she randomly dumped me for another guy. A month later, after their relationsh... (254 words)

My boyfriend is being very distant and is no longer affectionate. Is this because I am a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - Hello, i have been with my boyfriend now for about 6 and a half months. Things have been fine for the most part, we talk all the time and are seriously close, but recently he's been acting strangely, distant and doesn't want to show me any affection at all. I asked him about ... (392 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to realise I am nothing like his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - ok i just started going out with this totaly awsome guy, but im afriad that hes still not totaly over his ex gf. she was really controlling, and really kinda messed him up, even though he never really relised it. I really want to help him reilise that im totaly differnt,and ... (123 words)

I feel like my close friend is trying to make her boyfriend jealous.....of me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (?) - why is she doing this? i have a really close female friend who has a boyfriend. i always walk her home about twice a week. i talk to her for an hour durin that time. she's been really upset about her boyfriend. they have had a arguement. she was cryin, so i comfort her. i p... (220 words)

Just found out my Marine BF is being sent to Iraq in 2 days!! I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 October 2006 (F) - ok here is the deal my boyfriend who I have been with for about a year graduated from the Marines two months ago and said that he signed up for the reserves but they are making him go to Iraq anyway and he leave in 2 DAYS!! I dont really know how I am going to deal with this or ... (88 words)

How can I ask for this girls number? We seem to really like each other.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

7 October 2006 (M) - Hi all, i need some advice on a girl i really like, were both single both recently come out of relationships and are single now, and we've started talking on msn and we've seen each other a fair few times and spoke and today i met up with her and 2 other friends and we h... (132 words)