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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My officemate is 4 years older than me and I want to ask her out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I've started to become attracted to my colleague at work since I've got to know her better. I talk to her quite often and we get on very well. However, I have not dared once consider asking her out as I do not want to jeopardise our friendship if she says no. I have my doubts ... (77 words)

Am I Bi or is it just a phase?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

26 July 2006 (F)

- Well here it goes, i am having a problem. i don't know if i am bi or not. i like boys, infact i like boys alot but for a few years now i have been finding myself attracted to girls. i start having thoughts of being in a female-female relationship. There is a girl i like an... (111 words)

I feel the relationship is lopsided - who needs to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Whos fault is it? I need help, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months now but we've been having alot of problems. I feel he doesn't listen to me and he's always saying he's going to try and change or to fix us but he never does. He's also immature at times. ... (138 words)

My BF promised he would cease all contact with his ex, now he's meeting her for a coffee! Am I overreacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - OK, this is definitely the last time that I am going to post a question about this, but it's driven me to distraction for the last time... My boyfriend and me have been together for over a year now. During the course of this time, there has been one problem.. It's ... (257 words)

My BF tells his exes on MySpace he loves them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I know this may sound silly and i may sound over obssesive but I'm really in love with boyfriend. I'm so happy but the thing is I never use the word love lightly... I have only ever used it twice in relationships one was with him and the other was with a long term partner who ... (195 words)

My BF isn't texting/calling me anymore! Is he losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, and for the first 3 months, and even before we were dating, he talked to me almost EVERY day. At first he said he didn't want to ask me out because he worked so much and he was afraid he wouldn't be able to give me the attention i would ... (141 words)

Are nice girls considered too sweet, easy, and/or boring?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Do nice girls make guys think too sweet/ easy and boring? Ok, all guys claim "we are jerks" because you girls like jerks, and this is us. Then what is going on in another round? My ex complained that his ex was too loud, too bossy, having more sex partners than his, so def... (215 words)

How do I tell my mum about my long-distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I live far away, however are so happy seeing each other monthly, her family know, but I don't know how to tell my mum about it...... (29 words)

I was at a bar and someone jabbed me with a needle! But my friends think I made it up for attention!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (M)

- Ii was in a bar about 5 weeks ago (me and my friends had finished high school so we're celebrating before going away to college) yet something terrible happened. I was coming back from the toilet and (i think) someone stabbed me with a needle. I felt this pain in my arm and ... (156 words)

How do I approach a guy in a challengable and unique way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Sometimes see some cute guys in the bookstores/cafe houses and libraries, most time they come over to me and say hello, I never approached any guys at the first meeting. People say guys wont interest in a girl if she is too spontaneous! They will think you are easy and men do ... (81 words)

In love with my best friend, do I dump my current BF for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Well I've recently been bullied at school and i see it necessary to move schools as the bullying was so bad. My mum applied for the form and eveything and we did it all in secret but as soon as i got the news there was a place for me to move, the bullying stopped and I no ... (248 words)

I want to find my father, but don't want to hurt Mum or my stepdad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Me and my mum had always lived together, just us two, until a few years ago when she remarried. I care about my stepdad but I don't get on with him that well. My mum always said she never wanted me to find my father and I never did too until recently. Now I really want to find ... (123 words)

Don't Stand So Close To Me, I am the teacher and she is the student!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I really don't know how to explain this but i am attracted to a 15 year old girl who attends the school i teach at,i tried to keep it under wraps but shes realised and is playing on it. Shes not in my lessons, so for most of the year i hadn't even seen her but then on school ... (273 words)

I fancy this girl but don't want to risk rejection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - Last month, at the local park I looked and saw a hot girl. Then she came over later and she asked if i would play so we messed about playing tennis. Then today, I saw her and ignored her by accident as she walked past and I wish I'd asked her out. What can I do? I might never ... (83 words)

I don't know if I'm gay.... PLEASE HELP!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - hi im really worried if i am gay.i am 12 years old and there is a boy in my class that when he used 2 walk past i used to touch him up as a joke,but now when i see him i do it again,and i dont know if im joking anymore by touching him up. please help meeeeee ... (60 words)

Could I be pregnant because he came and was fingering me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Ive never done anything with any guys before and was a complete virgin until me and my boyfriend decided to go further. Anyway the other night I slept round his house and things led to another and I ended up tossing him off and he was fingering me at the same time well I ... (97 words)

I didn't want to cheat, but it was a drunkin' kiss.....now I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Recently I went on an all girls holiday for 4 nights away and before I went my boyfriend said that he had no reason to worry that I would cheat on him because he trusted me completely and knew I wouldnt cheat, anyway while we were away all of my friends ended up cheating on ... (209 words)

Is he just moody because we are out shopping, even though he normally loves it!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I am coming to the conclusion that my boyfriend of four months is moody, and am finding it difficult to cope with. It seems to be when we are shopping, which he loves, but all of a sudden he goes quiet and won't communicate with me. I start thinking I have done something wrong. ... (73 words)

His penis was erect but not hard, does this mean he doesnt really fancy me ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I recently found out that a friend of mine wants to be with me! So i went back to his place and we talked and we ended up in bed togther but he is 40 and i am 23 and when we were going to have intercourse his penis we still very soft even though it was erected! Does this mean ... (73 words)

Shes suddenly belittling me and saying she feels used after sex ? not sure what her moods are about ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - Last night my girlfriend seemed a bit strange. She was perfectly fine when I first saw her and she seemed her normal self but looked a bit moody. As the night went on she went all tired and i could see the look on her face was a bit moody etc. She whined at me when i said that ... (289 words)

I said yes to sex, but now im not sure, should I go on the pill anyway ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F)

- This boy i know(i no another question about a guy but...)sed he really wanted to have sex with me and i really like him so i sed yes but now he ses hes going to ask this other girl out...the thing is hes a bit of a playa and i dont think it will last long but i could be wrong ... (107 words)

Boys/guys: What do you think about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F)

- What do guys think about? can anyone give me a true breakdown of their minds cos at the moment i dont have a clue. Help please! This seems very random but i have my reasons...so any boys wana share their thoughts?... (41 words)

I fall in love with rats!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Hello All, I was wondering if I could get some advice from any men out there? I'm a single woman in early 30s, and I constantly seem to attract men who are lovely in the beginning, but then turn out to be complete rats. What's more, I find myself falling in love with such... (707 words)

He'd be my ideal husband except for the lies...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I am 33 yrs old, never married no kids. dating a guy for 1 year (30yrs) divorced with 4 year old. , very sweet guy, kind, generous, just my ideal husband. We were friends before we started dating so i have known him for about 2 years before that. He cares a gret deal about me. ... (417 words)

Do my parents care too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 719 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - What does anyone think of a situation where parents intervene in who they think is right or wrong for their children who've been brought up well and go to the extent of banning them from seeing someone. In this case it was a nice person but whose family have a bad name for ... (68 words)

How can I ge my ex back? (Long question)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - am a little desperate at the moment not knowing who to talk to or turn to. i am so confused. my boyfriend or ex and i were having real relationship trouble for months as we were both smoking marijuana constantly. we both knew it was damaging our relationship but i found it m... (786 words)

Im starting to feel Jealous about any male contact my wife has, what can I do about this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I,m having jealousy issues. Some I feel are legitimate and others from a possible low self esteem. A man approached my wife while she was out of town visiting a friend at a popular resort town. My wife told him she was married. He hung out with them though for a couple hou... (398 words)

My boyfriend just told me he has Chlamydia

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I'm so upset, we were about to start trying for a baby. I'm going to the clinic tomorrow to get myself sorted, but what if I am infertile now because of him? What if he is infertile?! And where did he get it from? He said he was checked and given the all clear just before we ... (113 words)

Oral: To spit or swallow... and what about kissing afterwards?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - This is an embarassing question. But do guys prefer women to spit or swallow after oral sex? Also should you kiss on the mouth after giving or recieving?... (28 words)

We haven't had sex for a year...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 715 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - my husban looks at porn and goes onto chat rooms then denies it when i talk about it we havent had sex since last year iknow he is wanking to this crap. help please we have been married 20year... (39 words)

I hate my Dad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F)

- please help me, im 16 and im reaching the end of my teather, my dad keeps stressing me out by having ago at me for everything that goes wrong in his life and as my uncle and nan are extrimly ill im quite emotinal at the moment and my dad knows this and he keeps going on at me. ... (140 words)

Should I be worried that he looks at his old wedding album ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I am a 21 year old female who has just moved in with a man of 35. I love him a great deal and we have spoken about marriage and children. He is divorced and i accidentally saw his wedding pictures which were hidden away. I have started to suspect that he is trying to keep the ... (97 words)

We had a trouble with the "Doggy position" anyone got any tips!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - recently me and my boyfriend decided that we wanted to try the doggy style position, but for some reason we couldnt get it in. we laughed it off n put it down to the fact there is almost a foot difference between our heights. does anyone have any tips on how we could get it ... (72 words)

Ive fallen for my boss, how do I let her know without jeopardising my job ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I have fallen for my boss at work she is a couple of years younger than me. How do I let her know how I feel, without jepordising my job, if I am wrong?!! ... (35 words)

I sent a lad dirty texts and he showed his sister...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 710 days ago

26 July 2006 (F)

- I sent dirrty texts to this lad i no cos e asked me 2 n im nt bovered bout that, bt his sister has read them and she's also my best friend. I dont no how shes going 2 act when she sees me because their both on holiday and im really worried even tho i shudnt be. And im upset at ... (101 words)

I feel like hes getting bored with me after only six months, how can I keep it alive ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and i feel like hes getting bored of me and i do not want to loose him because he means the world to me what can i do to keep him happy and occupied we already have a sexual relationship how can i spice it up abit?... (56 words)

I would like to get a prenup drawn up to protect the family business, he says he wont marry me if I do this, am I in the wrong ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 618 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I am planning to get married in April 2008, my Mum and dad have a really good family run business which I have worked really hard at for the past 6 years. I have mentioned a prenuptual agreement as I would hate it to be distroyed in the future if (god forbid) me and m... (90 words)

Having trouble understanding what happened after he came back from camp...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I'm 16 and I'm having a real hard time understanding what happened with me and this guy. Ok so we started seeing each other about 4 weeks ago, and he really seemed to like me a lot fast. (like texting me all the time and seeing me even if it was just for an hour cuz he had to ... (310 words)

I told him I cheated, but hes still living with me but not talking to me felt for sure we would split up, not sure how what going on!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Right, here goes! I recently cheated on my boyfriend of 16 months, everything was perfect and we had just got back off a holiday together where we got on really well. I had to tell him what i had done, at first he didn't let it sink in, it was only until i questioned him about ... (205 words)

Why do relationships never last for me ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F)

- Why do relationships fail? I just got out of my third relationship... I never had flings or affairs and I have been totally committed to the men I've been with... but, invariably, all my relationships seem to come to an end... this is devastating for me... I feel like I will... (89 words)

I'm a nice guy, a good guy, but girls treat me badly!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, I was wondering if you can help me. I'm a 24 year old male who has been hurt by every girl that I ever cared about. Three in total. I have learned something from every girl I have been with. The last girl I have been with really hurt me. I tried everything in my... (243 words)

My girlfriend broke it off because she's afraid to fall in love, but I want her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 724 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm really confused at this point in time. My GF and I suddenly had a bad patch in our relationship. We broke up because she is afraid to fall in love and get hurt again, from previous experience. I felt as though there was a real connection when we were together. It's rea... (92 words)

I promised him I wouldn't cheat again, but I did anyway! Should I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - So here's the thing. I met my boyfriend over a year ago at a time where I have just gotten out of my first relationship. I was devastated that things ended between me and what I thought was my first love. My current boyfriend helped me through the rough times and we ended be... (193 words)

She's lazy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - my girlfriend is lazy. and doesn't think so. what should i do about it? i can't her to clean up. what should i do about it?... (26 words)

I'm with a very hot girl... and if we have sex I'm afraid I might only last seconds!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I started talking to this girl and we've been together for 2 weeks now. I've been pretty pumped because she's the "hottest" girl in our high school many would say. But whenever she gives me head, I go wayy too fast. We're saying minute man even.. ha. I just can't hold it back.... (88 words)

The only thing putting me off sex with the man I love is the potential pain

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - hello....I'll start by saying I’m 19 and have recently finished my first year of college and am now on my summer break. My summer has been rather slow and I spend most of my time doing mostly nothing, just relaxing and enjoying my time off with a little work here and there, but ... (495 words)

She's still in contact with her ex and being all "secret" about it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and most of the time things have been great. However throughout our relationship her ex has been e-mailing and calling as has his mother. They live abroad and I they know nothing about me, he e-mails telling her he loves her and when ... (106 words)

I want to ask her out but I'm afraid of rejection...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I like this girl she is incredible she goes to my acting school. She said one day to me when i was with my friend who is a guy we should hang out. I asked her to hang out on monday she said she was busy. I want to ask to hang out on weds. I really like this girl but i hear she ... (137 words)

I'm sagotaging my relationship by my bad moods!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 730 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Im 21 and have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. The problem we have is that I wake up in the morning with a bad mood and I never feel like sex or any human interaction in the morning. My boyfriend is very kind to me, makes coffee and toast every morning, however when I a... (138 words)

I snooped into his email and found he's gotten another girl pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I think I already know what I should do, but I just need some opinions! I am a mother of three, my youngest is 2. I have been in and out of a relationship with their dad for a long time. He left us in January of this year and after a couple of months he slowly came back. He ... (210 words)

The whole town knows.... but how do I get solid proof my hubby is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I suspect my husband is cheating. Its embarrassing because the whole town knows, but there is no way for me to get some solid proof that he's doing that. All the signs are there, the whole town tells me about it, he has a prepaid phone so that there will be no bill or records ... (213 words)

My husband didn't defend me or my daughter, when his parents made her cry. What should I do because he and I haven't spoked in 4 days over this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - My husband (of 2 months) and I went to his parents anniversary party. I took my 13 year old daughter and her b/f along. His parents waited until I had left the room and then decided that they didn't like the way the kids were sitting on the couch, made rude remarks to them ... (196 words)

I seem to be void of feelings...am I doomed to never fall in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - im a 21 year old girl who cant stand the thought of commiting to anything, doesnt really want to be in love and pushes away the thought of if, and am basically like a guy in the way i think about sex. i dont like thinking about relationships and have never been in one. i change ... (129 words)

He broke up with me on messenger! I hate the way we ended this...should I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago on instant messenger well we actually both broke up with each other. we went out for almost two years and during that time he moved and the only way i got to talk to him was over the phone..we broke up cuz he was sick of me not calling ... (139 words)

When someone pinches, pushes or trips you...is that flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 730 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - i know this is going to sound extremely lame and childish, but would you consider pushing, pinching, and tripping a type of flirtation? because there's this girl i hooked up with a couple of weeks ago who keeps doing this to me. but she is in a relationship so it can't work ... (109 words)

My boyfriend is wary and thinks I'm not over my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - my new b/f and me have been going out for about a month now and I feel like he's very wary of things since he seemed to say "if this works out" and "we'll see how it goes" it sounds negative and I think it's since I compared the first time he said it to the way my ex used to ... (91 words)

I'm having periods but I'm worried that I'm pregnant

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - iv just turned 14 but wen i was 13 i went out with this boy and i had unprotected sex with him at least 4 times and he came inside me cos he assumed i was on the pill but i wasnt i cant remember this was about 3/4 months ago i am getting periods still but im startin 2 hav ... (93 words)

I've been bullied and it is still hurting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

26 July 2006 (M)

- I was in my 1st year at 6th form (I was 17) and teachers said that bullying shouldn't exist. This one guy in particular took a disliking to me, he made fun ofme, never took me seriously, always gave a stupid remark everytime I asked him something which, in short, is ... (149 words)

Her feelings for me are fading, so can I un-fade them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - hi,a girl recently told me she liked me. I was chuffed cause i think i like her to. i think shes starting to go off me though because she doesnt act like she used to. what can i do to help her to not go off me ... (47 words)