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writes: I started talking to this girl and we've been together for 2 weeks now. I've been pretty pumped because she's the "hottest" girl in our high school many would say.But whenever she gives me head, I go wayy too fast. We're saying minute man even.. ha. I just can't hold it back.it's kind of embarrassing... but I would like to have sex with her soon.. because she'd be okay with it, yet I feel I would only last like 2 seconds..help anyone? Reply to this Question
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (26 July 2006):
 Try masturbating before you see her, to relieve some of the pressure. And DO involve a lot of foreplay - for HER - so that she gets pleasure out of it too. If she has an orgasm this way, at least she won't feel short-changed!! Go slow, and just relax (or try to!) With time, and as you get used to one another, it will ease a bit. I have also read somewhere that if you or your girl *gently* grips and tugs your balls at the top where they join the body just before ejaculation, it delays it ...an old Chinese method, apparently..Have fun- and of course, don't forget the condoms - (I know it's obvious, jus' doin' me job!!) :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): First of all don't worry! My boyfriend gets like that sometimes and it doesn't bother me at all - kinda depends on how mature ur girl is! but i find it flattering that i turn him on so much he can't help it!! :)
without wanting to be crude, sometimes sex with us lasts no longer than a minute 2 at best - because its so passionate at the time he just can't do anything to stop it! and head as well sometimes its over in a minute or two!
don't be embarrased, just explain to her that u think she's really hot and that ur worried! i'm sure she'll understand and probably be very flattered too! just take it slowly, lead up to it and if the first time's over quick... do it again! once u feel a bit more relaxed and have slept with her a few times u'll probably be able to control urself a little more ;)
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