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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, and for the first 3 months, and even before we were dating, he talked to me almost EVERY day. At first he said he didn't want to ask me out because he worked so much and he was afraid he wouldn't be able to give me the attention i would need. It was never a problem, he always talked ot me more than enough but for the past month, he hasn't called me or even texted me AT ALL. I ALWAYS have to come to him first and when I tell him I need to talk to him more he says he's tired from work and that he's sorry, but then doesn't talk to me still. What is up? Do all guys do this, or is he losing interest? please help.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (28 July 2006):
 well he did warn you at the start, hard workers do have their energy took out of them. with men at the start they feel as though they have got to be sweet with you to get you then when they know they've acheived and your theirs they stop then. but that ent a bad thing its a good thing because he knows he has a brilliant woman now and his no longer single. all you can really do is understand and be there for him.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 He could be honestly tired, or overworked. He could also be being a coward and breaking up the relationship without talking to you.
Honorable men and women will come to terms with people and break-up. Allowing closure and finality to a relationship.
It sounds like no matter what is going on with him your needs are not being met. You might need to consider taking matters in your own hands and end this dying relationship.
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