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writes: Whos fault is it? I need help, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months now but we've been having alot of problems. I feel he doesn't listen to me and he's always saying he's going to try and change or to fix us but he never does. He's also immature at times. I tell him straight out what i want and I'm constantly doing things to change but it won't work if he doesn't help. I'm always having bad moods and he never knows what to do which makes it worse. Am i expecting too much, is it wrong that I'm unhappy and want more? Or do I blame too much and need to tolerate him more and continue waiting? Can people really change?
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (27 July 2006):
 Obvious aint it? Get out if your'e not happy, you can't change poeple, you have to except them for who they are, if you don't like it GO!
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 If you are unhappy in this relationship, it is not that you want more, it is that you need something different to be happy. Waiting will never solve anything in a relationship where needs are not being met.
People can change if they really want to. It take years and years of constant vigilance on their part. But you can't change anyone but yourself.
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