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writes: I'm 16 and I'm having a real hard time understanding what happened with me and this guy. Ok so we started seeing each other about 4 weeks ago, and he really seemed to like me a lot fast. (like texting me all the time and seeing me even if it was just for an hour cuz he had to work). He told my friend he really liked me and was gonna ask me to be his gf. We couldn't see each other for like a week because I was away and then he was going away, but I saw him in the middle for one day and we had a good time and he seemed like he still was really into me (I came home and then had to leave again), but he was home for 2 more days before he had to go away. So from the time I saw him and all was good, 5 days went by. He comes back from this religious camp thing and he's all weird like he doesn't want to talk to me and tells my friend he thinks I'm too clingy and the church thing made him different. I only texted him once and I didn't call him. Could he have met someone else and liked them better in that short of a time? I mean when we were together he really acted like he liked me alot so I don't know what I did wrong. We never did anything more than kiss so I know it wasn't that I gave anything up too fast. I just can't understand how someone could be all into a person and then not. what should I do now? I have just been kind of leaving him alone. Its been 3 days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2006): I'd say it's probably best to let him have his space. From what you've said, it doesn't sound like you've done anything wrong. However, if he's already saying that you're too clingy, don't give him any truth to that statement. You don't want to prove him right by bothering him. You gotta play the "ok, you want your space, have it" game. If he is still as interested as he was before, he'll definately be curious as to why you haven't texted him or called him. He might just be acting like a young guy and jumping around from crush to crush. When I was 16 I found it very easy to like a guy one week and then be completely annoyed by him the next. Just remember that you haven't done anything wrong. Don't hurt yourself by chasing after him if he has no interest, though. That'll only make matters worse. I'd suggest moving on and being happy without him. If he still has a thing for you, he'll come around and want to talk to you. I hope this helps you and makes you feel a little better, or at least a little more settled. Good luck with everything. I hope it all works out okay for you. Stay strong!
~RJGirl
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