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writes:This boy i know(i no another question about a guy but...)sed he really wanted to have sex with me and i really like him so i sed yes but now he ses hes going to ask this other girl out...the thing is hes a bit of a playa and i dont think it will last long but i could be wrong but anyway...befor he sed this i was concidering the pill. i didnt speak to him about it as i didnt have chance and i dont want him 2 feel presured bt should i go on it now anyway just incase? Some help or general advice please!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): So many girls complain about the way men use them, say that they are players, slags, users and that they only care about sex, yet it is girls like you that allow men to be like this!Sorry, I don't mean to personally attack you, it just surprises me how easy it is to "talk" a girl in to having sex. It's sadly also the case that it's usually the same kind of girls that are the first to complain about how badly treated they are by men.Don't do it. Find a guy who respects you and doesn't have to "ask" you to have sex, you're worth more than that, you really are.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (26 July 2006):
 Please, PLEASE listen to Shania, and furthermore you should be using condoms AS WELL - or you will not only end up with a broken heart if you sleep with this player, but possibly an STD or worse, to boot!! Look after yourself, you only live once, and only YOU can build your reputation - your call - gorgeous young lady; or the neighbourhood bike?? There are other, NICE guys out there, you deserve better than to be his stand-by!! Sorry to push this one, but it is a subject close to my heart!!! Take care..
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reader, shania +, writes (26 July 2006):
 Hello?...you dont want him to feel pressured?...Are you sure its not the other way round?..This guy wants sex and once he has done that he will dump you like a red hot brick....i guarantee it.Now he is going to ask another poor victim out,is that because you were still making up your mind about him?..Im not going to preach at you and if you want to sleep with him then you will but please use contraception...Remember though,it wont be the romance of the year.
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