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His penis was erect but not hard, does this mean he doesnt really fancy me ?

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Question - (26 July 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

I recently found out that a friend of mine wants to be with me! So i went back to his place and we talked and we ended up in bed togther but he is 40 and i am 23 and when we were going to have intercourse his penis we still very soft even though it was erected! Does this mean that he does not fancy me the way he says he does!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007):

I am 20 years old and me an my girlfriend have been having sex for about 8 months. With no problem but just the other day i could keep my penis hard long enough penetration but it would go back down immedatly i tried a few times then we eventually stopped. What is wrong with me im scared is there something wrong with me

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):

Toria agony auntI believe we all have to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful and appreciate them properly.

Hang in there, I think everyone wonders if there really is someone out there for us and if we will ever be happy but I really believe it can and does happen.

Good luck :o)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006):

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Hi i am doing fine. it swings and rounabouts! You will proably think that i am mad! but at this present moment in time i don't think i will find mr right i know that there is someone out there for me! No at this point i have picture in my head that i will be on my own because i keep havein one failure relationship after another and i don't know what i am doing wrong.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006):

I am sorry to hear that, you must be gutted? Are you doing OK? Do you want to talk about it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006):

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I would like to thank you for your advice but in the end up we did not work out

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A female reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (26 July 2006):

Hot (Advice) agony auntWell could be that he is now on the slippery slope of erectile dysfunctions...he is now 40

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2006):

shania agony auntIf he was soft then he couldn't of been that erected,saying that if he wasn't fully turned on then he wont get a sufficient erection...was the sex hurried up?...It could of being nerves but i think what you should is take your time and learn how you two can turn each other on.There is plenty of videos and sex books to look at and it will be fun to practise.I wouldn't worry about him not fancying you enough...of course he does,just try and experiment with plenty of kissing and touching...plus not forgetting oral sex as well....men love it.

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