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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

In love with a married man...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - Hi all i have got myself into a hurtful situation and i really don't know what i can do anymore. I am 21 and single and just over 4 months i became close friends with a married man who is over double my age and he has 2 kids and a profesional line of work. He has also been ... (427 words)

My BF is acting like a bachelor even though we have 2 kids! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I think it is over. We're both 22 and we have 2 kids but he has refused to change his dreams and goals that he has when he was a single man. He hates doing family things with the kids as HE finds it boring and I literally ha... (167 words)

How do I approach my tutor whom I have a crush on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - I really like my tutor in college but I dont know how to approach him. I think he may have feelings for me through body language but I don't know what to say. Help!... (36 words)

What could my GF be up to while she is on holiday?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 746 days ago

9 July 2006 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend is on holiday in Magaluf with her best 'girl' friend and I can't stop thinking about what she might be up to. We have been together about 3 months and the holiday was booked about 6 months ago. I bit my tongue about her holiday, was kind and helpful ab... (162 words)

He's back in my life...should I continue a relationship with him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - shera was dating a man for about a year, he experienced a problem in his family life- he just had a baby with someone else and he told Shera the situation may cause him his relationship with her. A couple of weeks following his discussion about his problem, he calls her and ... (160 words)

I still play with barbies. Am I to old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - Hi. I have a problem. I still play with Barbie dolls, and I'm almost 16!!! Me and one of my friends play with them, but we like playing with them. Am i too old? should i stop playing with them? Please help me!... (43 words)

Why didn't he try for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - hello i kept seeing this man around he was a friend of a friend and i was told he liked me every time i saw him he would come up to me and talk or id smile hello he didnt no i liked him tho i flirted but nothing ever come off it i saw him last night and he told me he just ... (152 words)

I'm 14 and obsessed with sex... How do I stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - I'm kind of obsessed with sex right now. I go on porn sites and watch live sex cams. What will i do. I really want to stop it. I'm only 14!!!... (31 words)

Why is he staying in touch when he doesn't want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - He broke things off months ago. He makes no attempt to get back together, yet continues to stay in touch. What is up with this guy?... (28 words)

Why don't they ever call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - hi , IM 21 and havent had a boyfriend for three years ill go out on the weekends and meet men even tho im out with mates and not looking they ask me for a date i give them my number but they never ring and i cant understand why we get on they seem interested my friends say ... (187 words)

What do they want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - heyas! im wondering - do teenage boys (around age 16 to 17) prefer girly girls who wear loads of make up and care a lot about what they look like and dont play any sports. Or do they prefer girls who only wear a lil amount of make up or none and do play sports and they dont ... (76 words)

Is my ex-husband calling because he wants to get together again? Or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - I got married when I was 20. I am now 35. He was 20 as well and now is 36. We divorced in 1999 after eight years of marriage. Both of us had other interests, mine happend to be a female. At time I thought I was lesbian. Well to make this short, he has remarried for the ... (169 words)

My ex acts like we're still a couple and I'm very confused about what it means!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 746 days ago

9 July 2006 (M)

- This is the deal. My ex and I went out. She had told me previously that she just wanted to be single and live her life, which I found hurtful so I stayed away from her and tried to move on. After not speaking with her for about a week, her mother sent me some food and... (279 words)

Could sperm survive a swimming pool and make someone pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - I realize this is probably a really ridiculous question....but I'm just curious. I know that the likelihood of getting pregnant from dry humping with clothes on assuming the guy cums is so very slim if at all even possible, that there should be no concern...but what about if... (94 words)

Thinking of a boob job, and I want to hear some experiences!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - Hello all. I have a question about breast implants that has two parts: First off, I'm wondering how the guys feel about them - if implants are better than small breasts or if there's no preference. Secondly, I wanted to know if there are any women out there who have the... (149 words)

Do girls really feel "vulnerable" the next morning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (M)

- I read that when a women has spent the night (and had sex) with a guy, she feels vulnerable the next morning. Why is that?... (25 words)

I want to go clubbing with my friends...but my parents don't let me out after 7 pm! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F)

- I am eighteen years old and my friends all go clubbing and have a laugh at the weekends. However, I am muslim and my parents won't let me out past 7pm!! And even then I have to give a fully detailed account of what I'm doing, why I'm doing it, how I'm doing it and when I'm... (174 words)

How do I stop my boyfriend from cheating on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - hi i have a bf and i dont want him 2 cheat on me what do i do?... (18 words)

Do woman value the "same" attributes in a man before she becomes attracted to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (M) - what really switches a girl on to a man? does looks really play a big part in it? i know for most men (the perhaps more shallow of us) its the ususal good looks, curvacious, sexy body that provokes the chase, as it were. do woman value the "same" attributes in a ... (107 words)

The signs are there that he likes me...so why won't he ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F)

- hiya im becky i was just wonderin im in love with this boy and i want to ask him out and he's given me all the signs we go out to bowlin and stuff and hes really kind and sweet to me. so i got my mate to ask him out and he said no he wants to do it himself and 2 weeks later he ... (96 words)

I don't want the boys to be put off me if I'm overweight, so what is the normal weight for a 14 year old girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - Weighty issues!! what is the normal weight for a 14 yr old girl i get the feeling that i am over weight and i get really concious about it especially round guys when i hug a guy i breathe in as i don't want them to no what my body feels like i no that its a put off to lads and... (84 words)

I'm getting confused with lads! How do you know what they are trying to say? Do they like me or don't they?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - How do you know if a guy likes you? what are the signs to show a guy likes you becaus I am totally in love with this guy and I have been for a while we always flirt with each other and he admits sayin i have a nice pair ( boobs) and a nice arse but when people ask him if he ... (164 words)

Not over my ex, he's moved on, how do I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - Me and my bf have been apart from nearly 3 months now and i still miss him more than ever and i hate it, he's moved on and he tells me this all the time how doesnt love me or how he never did and it breaks my heart. I just wish i could move on i dont wanna be stuck in the past... (157 words)

Ladies, I need your help. After our baby was born my wife has no sex drive and is questioning her feelings for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

9 July 2006 (M)

- This is a problem that only women can help with. My gf has a zero sex drive, and it is either since our baby was born at xmas or since we argued a bit since then, not sure which triggered it. We have been getting on great, and i mean great for two months, but she has NO s... (397 words)

I love her but she's confusing me a lot. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (M) - I was in luv with lady for the past 3 years now. I asked her out but she was too gridy, hard to confuse, she was not making herself available, chance to talk to but suddenly she changed her character to me. I then talked to her, she asked me about my pass that happened 5/6 ... (130 words)

My friends seem to keep letting me down - feeling loney!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - I feel really lonely but don’t know what to do about it. I am 30 years old. This feeling gradually crept up on me as one by one my friends have either settled down or moved away until I am the only one left. I have been shedding a few tears about it lately. I am feeling r... (952 words)

My cheating ex - is she messing with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (M) - Is she Messing with me and just trying to get at me? I have been split from my ex about 3 or 4 months because she cheated and is now with the man she cheated with. I had agreed with her that for my birthday i was going to a place near her and if she would stay away for ju... (138 words)

My dressing up just wasn't good enough for him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - The other night, I wanted to dress up for my partner in sexy lingerie but he said that it wasn't spontaneous enough and that I should have been wearing the underwear beneath my clothes when we out for a social evening. The thing is, stockings and suspenders can show through ... (107 words)

I thought this guy liked me... did he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - Hello. I'm 18 years old I don't have a boyfrind infact i never had one. I always though it was because i didn't have huge boobs (b cup here) and i'm only 5'3. There was this one time when i was dancing with a guy at a birthday party (he didn't drink so i know he wasn't drunk) a... (303 words)

Why does he act like I'm going to pounce on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F)

- Could anyone shed light on why a man at work acts as if I am about to pounce on him and cannot get away quick enough from me, whereas previously he seemed at ease and friendly? He almost backs out of my room if he has to see me for anything and seems to be avoiding me. It ... (181 words)

How do I get over my wife's affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 737 days ago

9 July 2006 (M) - although my wife's affair has ended I cannot stop thinking about it, even during sex. another major problem is her friends and family who knew about the affair, her sister even let her use her flat, other friends lied for her, other friends socialized with him,I feel I have ... (62 words)

Tested my boyfriend and he failed! Still want him though...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

9 July 2006 (F)

- Hiya, Recently I've been thinking that my feelings for my boyfriend aren't as strong as they used to be. So, my friends decided to test him, see whether he truly liked me, he was talking dirty with them, and stripped off on webcam. He then denied it completely to me. I know ... (117 words)

Am I paranoid for sending her panties away to be tested for "stains"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

9 July 2006 (M) - my wife has been working overtime and claims to get comp time but she uses her vacation time. she is working overtime again (she really is) said it was going to be time and a half not showing on check. in january she recieved a phone call letting her know that her husband will ... (408 words)

I need some freedom from my parents' opinions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - My parents don't approve of me dating my current boyfriend. I am 17 and he is 19. For some reason they have a big problem with that and always bring it up when they fight with me about him. He is the love of my life...and I'm not just saying that! I've known him for a year and ... (156 words)

He's changed. It seems like it's over between us, but we haven't admitted it. Should I break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - I posted a question earlier this week about my boyfriend not acting the same. I really need to know what to do. I don't want to be jumping to conclusions about the situation, but he isn't acting like the same man I fell in love with. If I don't call him, he don't call me. Like... (234 words)

What if my flirting boyfriend breaks up with me and goes out with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 748 days ago

9 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has this "friend" who's also my friend and they tend to flirt alot when were all together. I'll admit it, it does make me a little bit jealous when they flirt with each other because then he just totally ignores me and totally focuses on her. I'm scared that he's ... (82 words)