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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Discovered a photo of another man in my marital bed..! What next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

5 July 2006 (M) - Since discovering a few months ago that the likelihood of me fathering a child was very slim, my wife of 5 years has lost any interest in me. I have now recently disovered a photo on her phone of another man in my bed. I don't want to lose her but have no idea what action I ... (59 words)

Tough times in my life, but no one to talk to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - I am having a really tough time. My boyfriend just broke up with me and I just found out that my uncle passed away and he and I were really close! I am not doing OK. I feel like I have no one to talk to or that no one cares and I'm sick of it. I just want to know how to get t... (79 words)

Too self-conscious to get a pro to give me a wax, and not ready to shave it again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

5 July 2006 (F)

- Hey I'm 16 and I'm really really worried and scared. I'm a wax virgin in all areas and my boyfriend and I have decided that our next step is "oral" but I'm so scared because "down there" is really bad. I don't want to put him off but I'm really scared about it being waxed as Im ... (134 words)

He's a friend... but is he alluding to something romantic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - I previously posted this problem: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-got-frisky-with-my-friend-how-do.html but now I have a whole new question, just about the same guy. Last night, we were having a natter, and he asked me if I wanted to go off to the city with him for a ... (251 words)

Got dumped by my BF because I was a "terrible kisser". Now I'm worried about my kissing skills!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

5 July 2006 (F)

- hey um.. This is kinda awkward for me. I've never done this before, liked asked a question like this. I'm really inexperienced and this guy I'm with knows every trick in the book (if you get my meaning). I'm worried that I'll put him off becuase I don't know what I'm doing. ... (154 words)

His eyes say he's hurting. What should I do to get him to talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up in March. I'm trying to get over him, but every time I see, he stares at me and follows me. He told me when we broke up that he was unreliable, and his mom claims that night he cried all night because he broke up with me. He doesn't call, but ... (97 words)

Does true love mean you can forgive your lover for *anything* !?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

5 July 2006 (M)

- Does Love, I mean Real Love mean that you can forgive your lover for anything and be able to move on together and make that love work or does it mean just love while things are good and when they are bad you just up and run?... (49 words)

I suspect my wife my be a lesbian!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

5 July 2006 (M) - Please can you help me sort out my problem? I suspect my wife is having a lesbian relationship but I cannot prove it and would like some advice if you think she is bi-sexual. I have been married for 10 years now my age is 38 and my wife’s 43. I first started to notice a chan... (1343 words)

Does anyone know anything to get rid my condition as my GP hasn't given me good advice about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

5 July 2006 (M)

- a couple of months ago i asked a question on here which asked if my problem (pectus excavatum) could affect me (question was 'could my defect put a woman off sex?'). I thought it was things would be fine but things are now worse. I've now quit playing rugby after 6 years be... (122 words)

Is it wrong to hook up with a guy who has been with your best buddy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - is it wrong to hook up with a guy that your best friend hooked up with last year? she only hooked up with him 3 times, and not sex just messing around. she should have never done it because he was clear he just wanted sex, which is all i want as well. we both have been ... (201 words)

Any other foreplay suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 746 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - okay um, i have an awkward question. i've been dating my bf for about a month now and we haven't had sex yet. the problem is, he doesnt want to have oral until after we've had intercourse for some reason. what else can i do for him during foreplay then? i'm not very experienced ... (72 words)

Now he's scared to come near me when he is sober

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - i have this male friend who i have had a fumble with 6 months ago and we agreed to stay friends but he won,t treat me like his other female friends like hes scared to come near me when hes sober why does he treat me like this?... (48 words)

He has been with his mates for 2 days and now I am worried

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 743 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - Ok! I need some advice, I may e being paranoid but could do with some help! My fella has jst gone off on his holidays with his mates. Ibiza for 2 weeks. We had an emotional goodbye and everything seemed ok. I spoke with him before he got on the plane and he told me he would ... (133 words)

Hairdressing tips wanted for down there!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - I have a new bf and before him, i had never even been kissed!! i'm not planning o go too far with him yet as we haven't been together hat long but i have a problem that isnt gonna stop bugging me until i ask! As stupid as it sounds, i want to know how much i should shave/wax ... (84 words)

How do I break contact with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

5 July 2006 (M)

- Why does my ex and her mother continue to call me when she broke up with me? I told her we couldn't be friends as I am still very much in love with her and can't bear the fact of her with someone else so I just stay away and try to move on. We had dinner together and she ... (261 words)

I have communication issues with my man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 751 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - My b/f and i have been having more fights lately. Been together for a year. Sometimes i feel like his attitude is so indifferent and non-chalant. The way he invites me over to his family's bbq is by saying--what are you doing for the 4th and then my mother is having immediate ... (729 words)

My boyfriend, my best friend and ME!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - Ok I have an even bigger problem now…my feelings for my best friend have come back and even stronger. The problem is all my friends see that my boyfriend treats me like sh** now. He seems to think I’ll never leave him and no matter what promises he makes me he never keeps them. ... (173 words)

How do you deal with one-way-love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - I am in love with a married man but he has no feelings for me. it is a one way thing.please give me some advice how to get out of this sitution and move on... (35 words)

Guys... Did this man just use me to satisfy his ego?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - Hi all... I have a question for EVERYONE on this site... especially the men. I just broke up with a jerk whose very thought makes my blood boil. About 18 months ago, I was going through a very difficult emotional time. That is when I met this moron - who I MUST add is NOT ... (297 words)

How can you find out if someone is divorced or not ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

5 July 2006 (F)

- Does anyone know of a good free website which enables you to check past marriage documents/divorce records of someone? I just want to check that my ex is divorced like he says he is. ... (41 words)

I'm ready for a family now, but my husband wants to wait and keeps putting it off!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - I'm 31 and have been married for just over 10 months and the problem is that I am ready to start having a family, but my husband want to leave it 'for a few years.' The thing is, he seemed very keen on children before we got married and I know deep down he really want kids, but ... (188 words)

I'm nervous about my girl going away to "have fun"... How can I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

5 July 2006 (M) - Hi there, My girlfriend is going on holiday in a week or so with her best friend, to a lively place for 2 weeks. It was booked before we started seeing each other, and we've been on our own holiday together a few weeks ago. She's never given me any reason to be jealous or wa... (102 words)

Is it over? Things used to be so great...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 752 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, in the beginning it was great. He was so sweet and would always find something nice to do for me and shower me with affection. However, on our one year he decided to hang out w/ his friends and asked me to go along. H... (252 words)

What does it mean when someone says that they need space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - What does it mean when someone says that they need space?... (11 words)

Should I wait and see what she does or be assertive and take charge?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 752 days ago

5 July 2006 (M) - i dated this woman for about 7 months, and we have been broken up for a couple months now, and i still want to be with her and i honestly feel that she still wants me. we have been hanging out A LOT lately and talking on the phone as much now as when we were together. she has ... (173 words)

Does she or does she not want me? Is this a game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

5 July 2006 (M) - Girl that likes me alot.Her family knows it.I things And cant stop looking at her. Iam in Love with her.She knows it her family knows it.Her family likes me they told me want me to be with her.Her brother told me shes in her 50s I am 41. Now she runing away from me. she comes ... (96 words)

My partner is ruled by his Mother! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - My partner is ruled by his mother. She manipulates him when he is low. We have had a bad year, because he lost his job and has been unemployed. She has never wanted me with him and has spent this past year taking every opportunity to plant seeds in his head about our ... (293 words)

She doesn't like anything sexual-is she even attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 752 days ago

5 July 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I are absolute soulmates, or at least I believe we are. I love everything about her. She is all that I think about, and needless to say, my attraction and devotion to her is indescribable. The love is definately mutual, though perhaps less so physically; The ... (263 words)

I used to know him inside out but now I just dont have a clue who he is. Help me understand this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 23 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - pls help me really having a hard time atm. my fiancee of three years broke up with me three weeks ago saying he was too young (21), his mum told me it was cause he's stressed in debt and cant cope. he ignored me for a couple of weeks even though the only times i contact him ... (326 words)

He broke my heart into a thousand little pieces -how do I forget the bastard? help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

5 July 2006 (F)

- I want to get over him. I can't eat, sleep, think or even live properly without him. He broke my heart into a thousand little pieces and i am totally destroyed I want him back so badly. Please tell me how to forget the bastard. ... (50 words)

Does my ex want back with me...just to get sex from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

5 July 2006 (F) - HOW FAR WOULD A MAN GO JUST FOR SEX. My problem is that my ex says he wants me back after almost 4 years apart. He came the first night promising me the earth, wants to settle down and get married; wants to look after me and his son; says he loves me and wants to grow old with ... (497 words)