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writes: my new b/f and me have been going out for about a month now and I feel like he's very wary of things since he seemed to say "if this works out" and "we'll see how it goes" it sounds negative and I think it's since I compared the first time he said it to the way my ex used to say stuff like that. Am I being over paranoid? How do I fix this - I already told him he's more special but he thinks I'm not over my ex.help!
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (28 July 2006):
 the only thing you can do is keep out of touch with your ex which by the sounds of it your already doing. and just keep saying how much you like him how special he is e.g. ask him to do something to you that youve never had done(ANYTHING) then after his done it say i wanted you to do that because its the first ever time its been done and its by a special person. adventually hell realise his self just how special he is.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 First thing you are no paranoid and you can't fix this. You boyfriend is using a control tactic of making you always in the wrong and being the one trying to make up for what you have or haven't done.
This will only get worse and you will lose your self esteem if you continue this relationship. Allow him to be right and not let the relationship work out. You don't need this kind of mental control/abuse.
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