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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We both display passive/aggressive behaviour - how can we help each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6501 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - Growing up I have been told that I am a passive aggressive individual. After dating my boyfriend for almost two years, I have realized that he displays the same behavior. How is it possible to help myself as well as him so we can avoid current and future conflicts?... (51 words)

I married her out of laziness, now she's pregnant and I worship someone else!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - In 1998 a girl invaded my life. Through neglect or simple laziness, I went out with her without complaining, even though she grated with me. She idolised me. Five years on and the relationship was still there, again through my laziness to tell her how I felt (that I could ... (165 words)

My BF asks me to get on my knees and beg him to be gentle before sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - I have been having sex with my boyfriend for the past 3 months or so, but recently, before sex, he has been asking me to get down on my knees and beg him to be gentle (as that turns him on)...what does this mean? Why does he like me doing that??... (51 words)

I can't help my attraction to my husband's friend... and I have to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - God Help me. I've done it again...I'd been seeing my husband's friend a few times and though there was kissing we never had sex and about a month ago we agreed to stop. however because we all socialise in the same group things were difficult and we found ourselves still ... (269 words)

Why do they play games?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - Why do girls play games with ya??? Any help would be vvv greatful please.... (14 words)

My boyfriend's not been acting the same lately!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - I wanted to know... well lately my boyfriend has not been acting the same. He always has an excuse on why he didn't call back or when we are on the phone he's really not paying me any attention. Or he says 'let me call you right back' and it will be hours or the next day. So I ... (65 words)

Friends-with-benefits with a guy from school -- but I want less sex and more respect!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - Hi, just wondering if you had any suggestions on how to gain respect from a guy? Quite lengthy, but please take the time to answer. The thing is, last year me and this hot guy got together one time because he thought I was nice looking. I had known him for 4 years before thi... (327 words)

If he already knows I like him, how do I show how much I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - I am deeply in love with a boy called Dan and he knows I like him, but how do I say how much I love him and how much he means to me? ... (33 words)

He seemed VERY interested, but then he disappeared! Is the next move mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - About six months ago I "met" a man who has actually been a part of the same young professionals group as I have for the last two and a half years. For the first two years he was no more than a face in the crowd. I didn't know him, did not find him attractive and basically had ... (761 words)

He ridicules me until I cry!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. and we live together Our current issue involves miscommunication. He gets really defensive and ridicules the things that I say, as if I am not getting my point across (as many times as I may try to rephrase it). ... (190 words)

She turned me down once, so should I ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - I seem to like this girl. I cannot sleep without thinking about her. Also I cannot survive the day without thinking about her. The problem is last time I asked her out she said no and we were not getting along. Now that I seem to talk to her. She seems kinda kind towards ... (107 words)

My partner changes when he drinks and he's making my life unbearable...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - I moved to another country to be with the one I love. I have been alone (not unhappy and by choice) for 20 years. I put everything financial and emotional into this relationship and I am dying inside. He tells me he loves me all day, he is loving, caring and beautiful. So wh... (300 words)

The girl's not interested in a boyfriend right now, so why can't I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

6 July 2006 (M)

- There's a girl at school (well the school I used to go to but now I've left and I'm on my gap year) and I think she's perfect for me. She's smart, she's pretty and she has a good sense of humour. Yet she always seemed embarrassed every time I spoke to her, so I stopped talking ... (105 words)

Obsessed with his own death, he's shutting me out, but I want him, no matter what!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - My bf suddenly seems to be scared of dying and I'm scared he's trying to dump me. We are both professional folk in high-stress jobs, both divorced with kids. I'm in my mid 40's and he in his late 60s. We met 3 years ago at a conference and have had a great relation... (210 words)

We haven't met yet, but already I'm being warned off him as a cheat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - I'm a young girl and I have a friend. He has not seen me and he says he likes me. We always chat, but suddenly his friend tells me that he is a cheat and his friend says he liks me. I asked someone and the person said he was a cheat. I asked someone else and the person tells me... (97 words)

Even after 10 years, he wouldn't leave his wife, so I finished it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6492 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing John for ten years. It's a love affair. He's married; has been for forty years. They have problems, been married when they were 16 years old. I have always been there for him. I love him. It's wrong, I know. He is reponsible for his wife and woul... (106 words)

Should I go for it with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - Hi! i like this guy at a summer academy with strathclyde and i began to like him. Everybody told me that he liked me by the way he always carried on with me more than anyone else but i wasnt sure and didnt say anything now i think i have missed my chance of being with this guy. ... (80 words)

I found out my husband cheated four times!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - hey guys how are you I have discovered that my husband has committed adultery with 4 other women I want a divorce and I do not know how to go about it iam in a very difficult situation as I have no where to go0... (50 words)

I like a girl from school

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - Hi All I am new to this site and feel I need some advice. I really like this girl at my school we are good friends and get on really well. I have liked her for a while now and want to ask her out but lets say i aint the best around girls, I am kinda shy. The other night we h... (198 words)

Can you really get "love-sick"? What does it mean?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - Can people really get Love Sick? What is it? ... (14 words)

My ex fancies my best mate and I feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - hi, i had a bf, and when we broke up weve remaine d very 'friendly'(playmates)for a while he asked my best mate out. he told me this and i wasnt to bothered about him...it my best friend we'd been drifting abit, bt were still close. When he asked her out, meaning to p... (215 words)

He went quiet when he went home... And I hate the company he keeps!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - Hiya.. i'v been together with my boyfriend for 3 and a half yrs nw.. We both study in the Uk and are 21 yrs old.. However he's gone back to our home country this summer.. The first 3 days that he reached there he was always in contact with me.. via sms..After that he suddenly ... (293 words)

My wife revealed her real past and I'm finding it difficult

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - My wife of 9 years has recently got back in touch with an ex-boyfriend. She admitted a few weeks later to having been on a date with him, but insists nothing happened. However, she felt she could talk to him about everything, and that she was fed up with me not wishing to hear ... (132 words)

My girl lies about her texting habits!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - my girlfreind is 18 and i am 20 we have been togeather a year and we live togeather, i love her to pieces and i know she loves me but she lies to me allot mainly about her phone, she gets paranoid that i am going to run off with an ex so i said well if i dnt txt exes then u d... (283 words)

How can I help my partner overcome his one-night stand guilt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - i have tried to do a web search on the net for advice on relationships i cant find any so i thought maybe real people can help me. I am a gay male whose partner had a one night stand last saturday he told me he woke up the following morning with a man in his bed with no memory ... (270 words)

Is 110 sexual partners too many?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F)

- I want some advice, mainly from the women out there. I would like to know what you all think is an acceptable number of sexual partners for a man in his late 20's to have been with. My boyfriend is fantastic but I can't seem to get past the fact that he's slept with around 110 ... (241 words)

Need more advice on breaking up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - hi i posted a few days ago about my break up with my ex i would like to thank everyone who helped me i just have a few more little issues, as stated in my last i have taken the advice given and have arranged to meet her tonight for a chat. a quick update for anyone who dont ... (269 words)

Not sure what to do about this guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 16years old and I have liked This family friend for nearly five years and due circumstances I can''t be with him. But everytime I see him I go weak at the knees. He lives in stoke and has a model girlfriend and he teases me because he knows that I like ... (222 words)

Should I call the BBQ guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - I MET a bloke at a friend's barbecue. We really hit it off. It was quite awkward as I was there with another guy - but he's not a boyfriend as such, just a male friend. Once I explained the situation, everything seemed fine and we shared a taxi home. We spent the whole... (123 words)

After two years of marriage he says he's gone and says he doesn't love me... What next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - My Husband after only two years of marriage announced a week ago that he doesn't love me anymore and left. He said he needed time to think which I respected then he phoned two days later to tell me the our marriage is over. He has already moved all his stuff out. I've asked ... (152 words)

Our long-distance relationship came apart... Would it help if I went there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - Hi I need help, My ex is in london and I'm in another country and I was planning on giving up everything to be with him, and for us to be together, but then we broke up out of the blue and I'm in serious pain, but I still would like to go but the pain of being in the same place ... (207 words)

I'm going to miss the place I used to have in my daughter's heart when she gets married...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - How do I get over the fact that I wont be #1 in my daughter's life after she gets married? My 30 yr old daughter is getting married, and well, it's making me nervous. I'm her dad and she's my "little girl" and I feel like I'm losing her. She still lives at home we're very ... (165 words)

I adore someone who is not my wife

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

6 July 2006 (M)

- I have been married for over ten years. I have a loving relationship with my wife, but I know something is missing on my part. I have never adored my wife and don't know how or if I ever can feel this way towards her. We both brought pretty heavy baggage into our ... (237 words)

First I said yes I would, now I don't want to

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F)

- Hia, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 2 weeks. He's much more experianced than me (He's 15, and I'm 13). The other day he asked me if I would give him a hand job (wank him off), and I said yes. He's coming over my house on Tuesday. But I don't know if I wan... (97 words)

He's working his way out of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - My bf and I don't seem to be on the same page anymore. He has told his brother, sister, and friends what he was doing for me and it was a surprise. Here's the thing he has been so busy that in a month he has been to 4 states already. I got upset because I seldom heard from or ... (184 words)

Do as I say, not as I do! It's ok for me, but not for you!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I am 50 and my b/f is 63 years old. We have dated on and off for 10 years. We have never dated others during our breakups. I am learning how to swing dance. My boyfriend is an excellent dancer but very impatient when it comes to helping me. So I decided to learn to... (327 words)

He views porn and masturbates in bed next to me while I sleep...then denys it. I can't take this anymore! Help

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

6 July 2006 (F)

- Hi, my bf and i have been together for almost 3 years. I have been finding that he keeps lying about looking at porn and i know for a fact he has as i have found the evidence and have even herd him getting off to it while he though i was in bed asleep and i found the mess the... (267 words)

I think the flame is dying, but I don't want it to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6503 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am currently having a long-distance relationship with a man 7 years older than me. He is 30 years old. I am a student in college. We were physically together in a relationship for about a year, but have been taking it long-distance for about a year and a half,... (289 words)

She wants to get her life in order - should I do the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - My girlfriend recently broke up with me. We had been going together for the last year and half. We had seen each other almost every day in that time period and had a very affectionate relationship for a while. She had a known about me and wanted to meet me for sometime and... (497 words)

My GF says she isn't happy being with me but doesn't want to let me go! How do we work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - I am a 20 year old male and in a relationship with my high school sweetheart after taking a year and a half off when we went to college. The problem we are having right now is that she says she loves me and cares about me, but isn't happy anymore and does not feel attracted t... (158 words)

I'm dating a bisexual woman who is dating another woman at the same time as me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

6 July 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a straight guy who recently started dating a bisexual girl who already has a girlfriend of 6 months. Both her and her girlfriend are ok with each other dating other men, just not dating other women. I really like this girl, but I'm not so sure how I feel abo... (148 words)

My BF has just joined the army and feel that is more important to him than me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6503 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - My man has gone in the army n i hate it! i feel that he has chosen the army over me and i dont feel special anymore. I understand that this is what he wants to do with his life but i see it as the army is more important to him than me. I know i shouldnt feel this way and it is ... (83 words)

My husband just left me-he says I am holding him back but I found a suspicious e-mail. I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

6 July 2006 (F) - My huband is navy. He comes out in two years. He has just walked out on me just an hour ago. He says that i am holding him back and he wants more out of life. He says he is worried sick about the future. but i found a ripped up email he had sent to some one on board his old sh... (118 words)