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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am pregnant again after having an abortion not long ago... I feel so alone... please help

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - Hi I need help. I have fallen pregnant again after I have just had an abortion not long ago. I dont want to get an abortion but my boyfriend does and i have no one to talk to. I feel so alone. I have tried to convince him that everything will be ok but he is having none of ... (118 words)

Can I be friends with my gay ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - Is it advisable to be friends with an ex that tells you they love you but don't know who they are and what they want? And that they want to be with you more that anything, but wonder if they want to be with a woman or not at the same time, and is trying to be true to ... (67 words)

I think I'm gay - should I tell the girl who has fallen for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - I'll try be brief. I'm best friends with a woman and while at school we were close then we graduated and went our differnet ways and lost contact until several months ago we've become pretty close. MY feelings for her are "friendship" however hers is more than friendship, bu... (379 words)

Could our different sex drives cause him to stray?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I don't know what to do. I have a really low sex drive, whereas my partner has a high one. Our sex life is non existent. We have a 10 month old baby and I have fears of my partner leading astray because of it. Please help?... (47 words)

I'm too shy for all this.. Any tips before I lose him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F)

- Hey im 16 and very confused. I've been dating this guy (age 15) for nearly two weeks and i really love him and i know he loves me as that is all he has said in his texts to me. The only problem is im just too shy. whenever i touch him or hug him i tremble because im shy and ... (178 words)

She's moved abroad and now says I'd be better off without her... How do I convince her otherwise!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - My girlfriend moved home to another country a few months back and obviously we haven't seen as much of each other. Recently things have gotten really bad for her. I wont go into details but suffice to say her life is falling appart. Today she said to me I'd be better off ... (137 words)

Why is everybody hating me??? What can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - i have a problem, for some reason everyone i know is hating me, but i don't know why and what i did to them ??... (25 words)

He wants just the two of us to go out....but what do I tell my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F)

- my boyfriend wants me and him to go out like just me and him, my parents dont know about him and i going out ... it would be to embaresing to tell them they wont let me out of the house unless i have a reason, what shall i say im going out to do ? ... (60 words)

He went back to his ex, but now he wants me back....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I am young and in love. And its a mess. I dated a guy for 3 weeks, but about a month if you count one week we were friends with benefits. I had always had bad luck with relationships, but with him things were different. We actually worked out and made eachother happy. It wasnt ... (147 words)

She's become distant, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - my new freind an i were becoming very close in friendship terms but recently she has become very distant. we have not had a disagreement in anyway. its seems as if she doesn't want anything more to do with me. any ideas why?... (46 words)

He didn't give me his number, is this a warning sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

10 July 2006 (F)

- I met a guy at the weekend whilst in a niteclub. We danced together. He was not all over me like most guys tend to be when i go out. He did keep dancin with me. When my mate went off to sit down, he told me to go with her and that he would still be there when i got back. He ... (307 words)

I don't know how I'm supposed to act towards him now that we aren't together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - Alright I'm going to try to make a long story short. I recently (two days ago) broke up with my boyfriend. We unlike most couples did not want to break up. We had been in a long distance relationship. He lives about one hour from me. Neither of us has our lincense, so we ... (368 words)

Why does he always go dead before the deed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - hi..ive being seeing this really cute guy for a while and every time we try to have sex he goes dead he says its because he's really shy but i don't know any ideas?... (34 words)

We're talking marriage, but I don't wan to shift from my son's school, and my guy won't consider any move from his village!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for 4 months. He lives an hours' drive from me. This weekend we talked about marriage. He would like us to get engaged. I was thrilled. I have a son who he knows that I would not move from his high school, so as we are talking ... (141 words)

My parents forbade me to see the guy I like and I can't get over him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - I really like this guy. He's my friend's cousin, but my family found out I like him and they told me to stay away from him because I'm too young to like someone. Plus the guy is really shy and he lives like, 3 hours from where I live. I just can't forget him! What should i do?... (58 words)

Starting to resent my layabout boyfriend.. Wishing he would just leave!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I am having problems with my boyfriend, he is driving me round the twist, he has to be right about everything and is so lazy. He constantly sits on his bum all day long and never does anything to help me around the house. I am starting to resent him and do not know if i love h... (86 words)

How should I bring the chat back to this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - Hey Been spending time with my ex and its made me realise how much i miss the fun and the laughter and the constant chatting that i dont get with my bf anymore. i know that things change in a relationship as time goes on but i want it back and i want it with my bf not with my ... (72 words)

Why do I feel so alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F)

- hiya well at the moment i really love this boy and i dont no if he likes me to he flirts with me all the time and he sed he does like me and hes gonna ask me out but im really worried if he dosnt i havnt had many boyfriends and latley for some reason i feel very alone even ... (94 words)

I think I might have lied on my application for Uni...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (M)

- I have a problem at school (not bullying) but I don't think this site can help me. Can anyone give me a site which I can speak to like Dear Cupid but for school. Its just that I have sent in an application to go to uni and I think I might have lied on my personal statement (I ... (100 words)

Should I give her space or keep trying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - Hello.Me and my girlfriend were in an amazing relationship, we were the couple that everyone thought that would always be together, we were strong as a rock. But she found out that she was moving,we made a plan that we wanted to try and make it work.we were both up for it. this ... (331 words)

I'm married and my mother in law is living with us. Now I hate my husband and my mother in law!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - To make this short and sweet we have been married for two years we don’t own a house he won’t kids I cant have kids without fertility drugs I feel sick when I take them. His mother lives with use she was going to move out a year ago but she has no plans on moving now that she’s ... (267 words)

The angry car ride home was the last straw... How do I end this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - hi again all,i really just need some words of comfort at the mo u probably remember most of the problems about my mentally abusive relationship which i have posted before,but things are going from bad to worse,he is on at me 24/7 for effection which i can no longer give at all ... (303 words)

Why does everyone seem happy... apart from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (M)

- I keep seeing people always looking happy and yet I don't. I've realised why - they're good at a variety of things. I've just left school, so it is too late for me to do anything about it, yet I struggled through school on my own. The teachers never gave me much optimism... (194 words)

He thinks the CCTV is a fake, but why did he bring this up, is he up to no good ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F)

- Is he cheating again? I recently got back together with my boyfriend after having been split up for over a year because I found out he slept with another woman in our bed. He has recently been staying with me but I have warned him that I will find out if he does it again ... (172 words)

We were really good friends then we dated for a month, shes now begun to put up barriers! I want our friendship back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - I have been really good friends with someone for about 2 years. I have always felt an attraction between us but she was in a relationship for 15 months so never did anything about it. At the start of the year she split up with her boyfriend. I then found that my attraction for ... (206 words)

Not sure if I ever loved him, is it possible that I ever could ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - Need help and guidence from anyone who has been in a similar sitation and can help me make my decision... I have the hardest decision in the world to make and I need to make it soon as I don't want to have this hanging round my neck any longer... I have been with my husba... (453 words)

Do you think he fancies me ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - does he like me? Hi theres this guy that i work with 2 days a week. he is 4 years older than me (i am 19). I really like him and i often flirt with him, i want to ask him out but i dont want spoil a friendship if he doesnt feel the same way! we have been really good frie... (121 words)

Everything was great... Until he told me he was living with another woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I've been seeing this man for the past few months everything was fantastic up until a couple of weeks ago when he told me he was living with another woman i was devestated when he told me this he said they had been together 12 years (he's only 27) but only moved in together ... (229 words)

We are scared to date because of my dads reaction, what should we do!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - Ah really need some help me and my boyfriend have only been going out for just over 2 weeks and he is my first serious boyfriend. I have introduced him to my parents and they seem to get along ok but everytime he comes round we go straight to my bedroom to listen to music and ... (291 words)

Hes still good friends with his Ex and its making me feel wierd!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I'm 18 and i've been with my boyfriend who is 30 5 months and we are talking abvout moving in together later this year and going on holiday soon.We love each other and hes told me hes never been this happy but he has an ex girlfriend who he is still really good friends ... (115 words)

Should I wait for him to tell me he loves me or should I say it first ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and I absolutely adore him.Everything he does makes me feel that he loves me, although we have never said' I love you ' to each other.I am scared to say it first to him in case he doesn't say it back,although I feel I will ... (73 words)

Why does she need this tattoo? I really dont want her to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - My wife of five years has announced she wants to get a tattoo. However, she knows I hate them and don't want her to have it done. She says it will be discrete and only I'd be able to see it, but why do so when I don't like them? I love her as she is and don't want her ... (140 words)

How can I get my man to include himself more in our plans ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - My problem is getting my boyfriend to do things with me and my friends. I have been with him a year and apart from my birthday and a bbq at my sisters, he has never come with me to a special event with my friends. He wouldnt come to my works Xmas party as he felt uncomfortable ... (293 words)

I've fallen in love with my friend's (now) ex-boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I have a female friend and I met her boyfriend. The boyfriend and I became very good friends (share secrets and tell each other everything). He is like a brother to me, but I recently realised that I am in love with him. He recently broke up with her but is back with the mother ... (62 words)

We work together... So I have no idea what to talk about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i work together and i get all tounge tied with it comes to talking alot so i dont know how to go about talking about things or what all to talk about?... (36 words)

Her body language said "let this be over" and I shared her pain... Why was this car journey so awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - Hi there. I appreciate that there are some genuinely nice people on this site who care about people and try to give good advice. Maybe some of you can share it with me today. My problem is trivial really. Its just really bugging me tho. I have this female friend in work w... (231 words)

How do I get over the fact that I was dumped for another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F)

- I met my ex 3 years ago and fell in love with him instantly but we didnt get together until a year later because we both had partners at the time. So when we finally got together I was so happy. It was the first time I had fallen in love and it was very special and a lovely ... (545 words)

He doesn't want to split up... But he does say that ALL women drag you down and destroy your life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - why?would a man[who has never been married and doesn't have children] want to be in a relationship with a woman,when he thinks all woman drag you down and destroy your life? i've been with my boyfriend just over a year,[in the begining he was loving and really cared] and all ... (150 words)

No sex from my husband. I'm only 33 and I can't stand it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I've been married for 5 years. My husband is using heart medication - it was a very mild heart attack over a year ago which he has completely recovered from - yet is stuck on these heart meds for life now. But he uses this as his reason for not wanting sex and for being un... (340 words)

My BF's boasting about his sexual past is shredding my self-confidence!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F)

- Hi, my bf and I have been together almost 3 years and we live together. Things are great but there is one thing that bugs me a lot. Sometimes when my bf is with his friends and they are all drinking he will always bring up a past sexual experience he had involving a guy, ... (246 words)

Haven't broken it off with the old boyfriend, but I *have* got a new boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I'm having a hard time finishing it off completely off with my bf who I've been with for a year and a half. I told him that I needed space but I didn't completely just break it off. I have fallen for my old high school flame. We have always had feelings for each other. E... (148 words)

What was my BF doing in the bathroom with his phone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - Am I reading into things too much with my b/f of a year? We were laying down and going to be getting ready for the day--and he goes to take his shower and has his cell in his hand and said 'are you done in here for a little while?'--i guess meaning, he will take his shower n... (501 words)

He faces a tough workload, and takes his temper out on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6506 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - Is my relationship worth trying to save? Him and I have been together for a little over 2 years now and we have lived together for about a year and a half (and have been engaged for that duration). When we got together, things were entirely different. He treated me like ... (289 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant from dry humping through layers of clothes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - Well my bf and i were dry humping tonight and he got really into it and I think he "went". I was reading another post about this and one of the answers said that its very risky so I'm worried. Here is the situation though. He had on bball shorts and i had on jeans, also i w... (189 words)

Need to hear that other people tried weird things when they were younger, so I don't feel so embarrassed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6505 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - My ex was very controlling and made me tell him everything and now I feel like I have to tell everything to my new bf, who doesn't care what I have done because he said what's done is done. The only thing I didn't tell him is really embarrassing, like when I was younger. You ... (185 words)

I really like my teacher - how likely is it that we could get involved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6506 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I'm sure this question has been posted millions of times... but I need to ask so... here I go: I started liking a teacher about January (when he was no longer my teacher). I would go in his room with friends and flirt with him everyday and laugh about stupid things. He seem... (275 words)

I'm a lesbian and I love my friend! How do I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

10 July 2006 (F) - I'm a lesbian, how do i tell my friend i love her?... (12 words)

Foreskin and erection question...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

10 July 2006 (M) - Are you meant to pull your foreskin back when you have a hard-on?... (13 words)