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The whole town knows.... but how do I get solid proof my hubby is cheating?

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Question - (26 July 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I suspect my husband is cheating. Its embarrassing because the whole town knows, but there is no way for me to get some solid proof that he's doing that. All the signs are there, the whole town tells me about it, he has a prepaid phone so that there will be no bill or records of phone number that i can see (his excuse is, that he got the prepaid phone to make calls to mexico and not have high expensive bills) he works out of town alot or so he claims, and our sex life is zero. Even my daughters have seen him acting funny, they say they see him spending long hours on the phone and that he disappears . I just dont have solid proof that he is. I want to file for a divorce because this has been going on for the longest time, and i want proof that he's cheating so that i could take this to the courts! I want him to pay for all the pain that he's caused me and his children because of his cheating! Could someone please give some info on what i can do to get solid proof that he's cheating on me!!! PLEASE!!! I WILL APPRECIATE IT VERY MUCH. THANK YOU!

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A female reader, jaybird +, writes (26 July 2006):

I think i might be able to help you on this.My husband was also having an affair recently with a family member so i had to have the evidence or it would not be believed. Go to www.flexispy.com and you can download software on to his phone..this will alow you to read all his ingoing and outgoing msg's from his mobile phone. It is only compatable with certain phones so you might have to find a way to change his phone. The website will tell you which phone is needed and make sure you download the software before you give him the phone. My husband got drunk one night and i threw his down the loo, he thought he dropped it down there. I then replaced it with a Nokia N70 including software and then watched everything he did on my laptop. All the evidence was there i just printed it out and showed the rest of the family on a night out for a meal.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006):

You need to hire a private investigator - do a google search on cheating husbands.

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