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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really need my friend to stick up for me in court, but she doesn't want the hassle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

27 July 2006 (F)

- Hello I was wondering if somebody could give some advice. Recently I was raped by my boyfriend. He is now my ex but my best mate was the first person I saw, spoke to and told about the incident, and she won't help me get justice done because she is saying she won't ... (109 words)

Just had sex, and it's throbbing "down there"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - This is quite embarrasaing. After having sex with my boyfriend I'm in a lot of pain in that area and it feels as if it's throbbing. I don't think that it is a serious problem, I just wanted to know if anyone had experienced this or had any advice! Thanks in advance!... (54 words)

Love my boyfriend, but not sexually attracted! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - I am extremely happy with my boyfriend, I would never want to break up with him. We get on great. Everyone else thinks we are a match made in heaven. There is only one problem; I find it hard to be turned on by him. I have no major interest in having sex with him, much to ... (132 words)

A friend and I hooked up... but is the attraction for real?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - One of my best friends and I met awhile back. The catch is, we both initially had mutual feelings there for each other at that point, as I had liked her a lot for a while before we ever spoke, and so did she. But we both were in relationships, so nothing came of it. We eac... (460 words)

I want him out of my house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend that I don't want anymore to move out of my house?... (17 words)

It's been a few years, but I still miss the friend who cheated with my ex-husband! Do I try to contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6479 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Okay, this is a Jerry Springer one. But I am for real, and I would appreciate an outsider's perspective. I was with my kid's father, "Rob" for 5 years, and I was best friends with "Jenny" for probably 10 years. We were like sisters, I have never been so close to anyone. ... (441 words)

Feeling stressed and depressed, and now having to compete with the memory of my BF's exes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F)

- Hello, lately, I have been feeling really depressed about everything in my life. I am stressed out right now about work and school, and also my boyfriend adds to that stress. Since we have been dating about six months ago, his constant talk of exes and how better they were at ... (194 words)

I have a wonderful guy whom I trust and love... but I can't get his 100 past sexual encounters out of my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F)

- I need people to tell me if I'm being crazy and how to get over this! I have a wonderful boyfriend. He treats me fantastically, he's loyal and trustworthy, he'd never cheat and basically worships the ground I walk on. However, there is one thing that I am unhappy with and... (334 words)

He's too tired to see me; does that mean we're not dating any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Okay, so I'm dating my neighbor, which was a big mistake but hey, it was his idea. Anyways everything was fine when we first start dating but for the last week he’s been to tired and doesn’t even want to see me. (Remember he does work 10 hours in the heat every day.) Howeve... (105 words)

My boyfriend can't decide whether to settle down with me for a while, or look for thrills with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6224 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now. The relationship is a pretty good one--we enjoy each other's company, laugh, joke and talk a lot, we share a lot of the same interests and hobbies, don't argue a whole lot. He is very moody, however, and the space of ... (248 words)

My vibrator's too loud and the family can hear me masturbating!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

27 July 2006 (F)

- Hiya For the past few months I've been using by vibrating back massager as a vibrator, however it is very loud, and I like to use it just before I go to sleep as I sleep so much easier. All of my family can hear it in the room, and I try my best to muffle the sound for them but... (116 words)

My guy friend won't make a move, and I'm scared to say anything, but I wish we were more than friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Hiya, well I've been mates with this boy for about 3 months. I'm starting to get really strong feelings for him, and would really like to have a proper relationship with him. The thing is, is that I'm not sure if he wants the same, and I'm not sure about how to tell him how ... (89 words)

My husband cheats and I am in love with another man (who has a gf) So how do I know my other man is really interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - I am married. My husband has been cheating on me for years. He is a great provider, however, the women that he is involved with over time do not give me no respect. This has bee going on for 17 plus years that we have been married. I have fallen in love with a guy who said ... (207 words)

His cannabis use is dividing us! Should I move on or just accept it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now. We are an awesome couple when things are great! But I don't know if I should leave him or not because he smokes weed. I don't like it. He says he'll stop when we are more serious about each other, but I don't see ... (85 words)

How do I handle my moody, insecure bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - how do i handle my boyfriend.we have been dating 6 weeks and we really like each other.the only thing is that he seems to want to control the relationship.i think he is insecure.whenever i have talked about past relationships and boyfriends he always asks what they do for a ... (152 words)

Does she like 'me' or is she nice for other reasons? How do I know for sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (M)

- I really like this girl and she acts as though she likes me. She is with a company trying to get me to buy services from her company. She flirts with me and smiles the whole time we talk. She came by my office a couple of days ago to drop off some information on services of ... (127 words)

Ive met a guy who my parents say is "out of my league" should I do what makes them happy ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Have met a guy who my parents consider out of my league. They think i can do better, maybe i can but i've fallen for this guys kind caring ways. At same time i don't want to let my family down - do i just move on in the hope that someone better will come along with all the ... (70 words)

I met a nice guy a month ago, he now tells me he cant father children, I want children so should I end it ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Met a nice guy but a month into the relationship he tells me he can't father children due to medical reasons. I'm not sure whether to continue the relationship, am i being selfish? I would love my own children.... (41 words)

Could someone help me interpret what this means ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - I have known this guy at work for a while now and although we both work in different departments we bump into each other on a weekly basis and we have talked in the past. Everytime I bump into him by accident he stops in his tracks and stares straight at me, and for some reason ... (132 words)

Am I paranoid for thinking this means he cheated ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Hello My b/f and i dont see each other every night..every few days..so when we do sleep together--the first time is kind of fast if you know what i mean and then the 2nd time is usually longer..last night the first time was longer than usual and we hadn't been together fo... (77 words)

We took all the right precautions but im still worried I could be pregnant!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F)

- This Saturday, I had sex for the first time (It's Thursday now over here). My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and we used the Durex Extra Safe condoms which, as far as I know have spermicide included. We took extra care to make sure the condom didn't break or split, and ... (125 words)

Is alot of Body hair normal ? And does it stop growing ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - i am a 15 yr old boy and i would like to know is it normal to have a lot of body hair, meaning chest, stomach, back legs and bottacks, and i would also like to know when does the body hair stop growing????? plzz help me as im worried... (50 words)

How could I go about rebuilding trust, I really didnt do anything intentionally wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid I finished up a practicum at the Ministry if Child and Family Development some months ago in a counselling role. Since the ending of my practicum I have sporadically kept in touch with a 15 yr old girl via email who was having a particularily rough time... (537 words)

How do you know if someones fallen in love with you ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

27 July 2006 (F)

- Guys and Girls:- What are the signs a guy is falling in love with a girl? Do you have any stories of how you fell for a girl? or ladies, can you tell me how you knew your man had fell for you? Thanks xxx... (47 words)

Boyfriend's mum is dying of cancer - she has weeks to live...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

27 July 2006 (?)

- hey everyone, ok so recently we've found out that my bf's mum in dying of cancer (about 2 month ago) the doctors predicted she'd pass away before xmas. now last night his dad rang us. they'd had the doctor out as she'd taken a turn for the worse n they are now predicti... (161 words)

I feel very insecure and not sure what to do, one minute we were to buy a house together, now he doesnt want to do it jointly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for 18 months, I moved in with him after just two months on the condition that he sold his house because his ex used to live with him and I didn’t want to live in the house where she had been, now the house has sold and we’re looking for a new home ... (285 words)

We're 24 and she no longer seems like she has a sex drive... How can we deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - I'm in a 3+year relationship with a wonderful girl, we're both 24 and live 10mins apart but every so often we have huge arguments that result in us asking each other, 'is it really worth it?' It all started around 2 1/2 years ago, not long after we left university (wher... (347 words)

I want to progress from friendship, but I'm afraid of looking desperate or needy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - Recently I met someone on the net and we seem to have grown to "like each other". We met several weeks ago on the internet...exchanged emails, pictures, and chat almost daily... Getting to know more or less about each other, and when we chat it's fun and great. Prob is that I ... (229 words)

I'm great as my ex's friend, but she doesn't want me as her boyfriend again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - I dated this girl I really care about. We broke up but we still talk on the phone. She says she can really open up with me she would rather call me than her new boyfriend. I know she still likes me but for some reason she won't get back together with me. I want her back. W... (64 words)

He was interested for 3 weeks but now he isn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - is it normal for someone to act like they really like a person and then just a few days later stop? I've been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks and everything was really good and then all of a sudden he got weird. I have this feeling like he met someone else, but if you act ... (87 words)

I like him, but the approval of my friends matters more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

27 July 2006 (F)

- Hi, please help me. recently iv got to get a know a school mate really well, i havent told anyone but ive started to grow strong feelings for him. im adicted to speaking to him and i can tell him anything because he listens to me. hes the nicest most genuine boy i know. h... (124 words)

Wanted: a virgin female I can lose my virginity to. Where are all the decent girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

27 July 2006 (?) - i want 2 meet a virgin lady i say lady cause 95% of the girls i meet drink, smoke and go out every weekend and get pissed. And that just aint me i 19 but very mature for my age and,i'm one of thoes people who can pass for older, and when i do meet a decent girl shes always got ... (168 words)

He's ready to move to be with some internet girl--isn't that just what 40 year old divorced people do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

27 July 2006 (?) - I resently logged into one of my exs profiles on the internet only to discover he’s been messaging a girl who lives almost half way across the country. I thought I was funny when he started talking about moving there to go to college. (He’s never had any desire to go to colle... (218 words)

I get the feeling he may just want me for sex... But I want more than to be his f-buddy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 July 2006 (?) - This is hard to explain so bare with me…I’m 18 and have been single for 2 years. My last realationship was pretty hard to get over , I have trouble trusting guys and I’m very scared to make the 1st move. I’ve had crashes, kissed people and had sex (I’ve not slept around tho... (252 words)

Bus stop, wet day, she’s there, I say,..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - I will be honest with you , i am a single 29 year old guy,very shy no friends and at the end of each work day including weekends i stay home i never go out to party. On Monday this girl walked on the train, our eyes met and she smiled at me. her stop was the same as mine, when ... (269 words)