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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and most of the time things have been great. However throughout our relationship her ex has been e-mailing and calling as has his mother. They live abroad and I they know nothing about me, he e-mails telling her he loves her and when I ask her whether she still keeps in touch with him she says she used to but not anymore. I know for a fact this is untrue because he e-mailed her yesterday and she called him two days ago and quite a few times last week. Is this relationship worth the trouble? Please help?
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (28 July 2006):
 im in the same situation my feller was with his ex 21years and he cuts her grass and every text he gets off her he hides. but he says his doing it to stop me hurting maybe thats why she wont tell you. maybe your start being insecure and she doesnt want that so finds it better to hide it from you but what i would do is email him back and say im her boyfriend please stop saying you love her.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (26 July 2006):
 No it isn't. Sorry so harsh but if she is lying about a simple e-mail or a phone call what else is she hiding? I say break it off and let her have time to get her head together and make a decision but for you don't sit around and wait for her. Go out and have a little fun. You may meet someone else you don't have to question about an ex. Good Luck.
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