| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: I have a female friend and I met her boyfriend. The boyfriend and I became very good friends (share secrets and tell each other everything). He is like a brother to me, but I recently realised that I am in love with him. He recently broke up with her but is back with the mother of his child. What must I do?
View related questions:
broke up Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): Respect his decision, but dont forget love works in strange ways, if he feels the same way he will come running
for the moment keep your eye on local boys, u never know what could happen, maybe even try and make this boy gelous...
A
reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): Respect his decision to be with the mother of his child. Know that to the child; that is what the child needs to be happy and successful in life.
Look past your own desires and needs to see what really is important in life.
It's not wrong to have a love for him just, he made his decision. Support him.
This is what he needs. To know that he can have your friendship.
You are a good person and can do good. Good things come to those who wait.
...............................
A
male
reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (10 July 2006):
 I say leave him be you have more to lose than to gain. Weigh the pros and cons of the whole thing. Keep your friends. Relationships come and go but that friendship if nurtured the RIGHT way it could last forever.
...............................
A
female
reader, Natalie-x +, writes (10 July 2006):
 There's nothing you can do. Would you want to hurt your friend like that? And anyway, he's in a relationship. Try and think of him as the brother you described. You two getting together would hurt a lot of people.
If he were to break-up with his current girlfriend, ask your friend if she'd mind you two going on a date. If not, try and meet new people. You dont want to lose your friend over a guy. Good luck!
...............................
|
