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writes: I am young and in love. And its a mess. I dated a guy for 3 weeks, but about a month if you count one week we were friends with benefits. I had always had bad luck with relationships, but with him things were different. We actually worked out and made eachother happy. It wasnt all perfect the whole time though, we were really close one day, and then the next he was all secretive, and wouldn't say a word. His ex girlfriend was moving back here, 3,000 miles away. He dumped me over the computer which was horrible, and tried to tell me how it was his heart that had made the decision. Now its 2 months later and he wants me back, he tells me he loves me, and he will leave her, he just doesnt know when, its a mess.. what should i do?
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reader, bumble bee +, writes (11 July 2006):
would bother with him if i was you, it seems like he is just wasting ur time, do u really want to live in fear that he is gonna do it again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): wel it seems to me like he just wants what he hasent got. because he had you split with you for no reason that u have mentioned and he suddnly wants you back...? no if he really loved you he woulnt have dumped you in the first place for his Ex. he does sound like a great guy but if you do decide to give him another chance then dont let him get the better of you and make sure he knows that its his last chance and if he messes it up again thats it, because you obviosly love him and want him back as long as he knows you wont take getting hurt again a second chance sounds fair. but remeber its your choice. hope that helped xxx
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (10 July 2006):
 I wouldnt trust him if i were you. I am sorry to say this because i know you wanted to hear more but he seems the type i have met and have thought me a lesson or two in my past adolescent years never to fall in love or trust someone who still has issues with an ex.
What i would do if i were you is to forget him and move on with your life. I can see it that you dont trust him so tell him so. He couldnt even face you to tell you it is over. To worsen things off he hasnt even still broken it off with her and now he says he wants you back. He isnt even sure when he wants to end it.So how can you trust him or even believe him?
I know you have had a difficult time in relationships so have i. I have found my dream man and i know you can too. Believe me when you meet him it will be worth the wait. Be patient you will find him .
I wish you all the best. Goodluck.
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