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writes:I met a guy at the weekend whilst in a niteclub. We danced together. He was not all over me like most guys tend to be when i go out. He did keep dancin with me. When my mate went off to sit down, he told me to go with her and that he would still be there when i got back. He was. He went off for a ciggy and still came back to me.We even kissed a couple times. He is two years older than me. My main issue is: he told me he had to go and didnt offer to give me his num. I asked for it and he said he didnt know it off by heart. I gave him mine and asked him to phone me there and then so i could get his number. He told me to text HIM because he had just split from his girlfriend of two years. I just want to know if there are any warning signs that i should not contact him?I have left it three days, as I have been advised to do, but am wonderin if I pressured him into giving me the num or if he was just unsure about giving me the number because I hadnt asked for it before that?Is he even interested? Did he just say it was better for me to fone him because he doesnt want to get hurt again?I've been hurt in the past too, but I quite like this guy as he was not all over me like the other guys usually are and he has told me to text him. PLEASE HELP before its too late
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reader, tonsta +, writes (11 July 2006):
sounds like a rebound to me sorry i mean he probably did think you was attractive but him saying he just came out of a relationship sounds like he might of been out for revenge. send him a text just saying hi remmeber me or something and see if you get a reply. if not let it go as hard as it may be.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (11 July 2006):
 I think hes already spoken for. Would explain why he didnt want you calling him but texting was cool. Would also explain why he wasnt way over the top with the hugging thing etc, he probably likes you but hes either a, just broken up with someone and isnt ready or b, is indeed still with someone. I think if he was really intersted hun he would have been in contact with you. Afterall he got your number in the end no matter how things panned out. If he did want to see you again he wouldnt hold back. You could simply text to say hi remember me but dont hold out much breath that you will get a reply back. I could be wrong, but he tried all the excuses not to give you his number and then mentioned an ex girlfriend. I think shes not an ex at all. So its up to you, i guess you have nothing to lose for a simple text, but you might feel more deflated if you get no reply. But be careful if he should reply that he has indeed not already got a girlfriend.
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): It sounds like this lad likes you other wis he wouldent have kept dancing with you and he certainly wouldnt have kissed you if there was no spark. i think you should txt him and get to know him and it doesnt sound to me like u pressured him for his number at all. leaving it a few days was a good move as you dont want him to think you were coming on too strong but i dont think there were any warning signs about not contacting him. txt him just to say hi and for a lil chat and see where it goes from there. hoped that helped xxx
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