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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Will their marriage last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My ex husband left me for another woman and she got pregnant while we were in the middle of our divorce. Does anyone think think the marriage will last?...

Am I overreacting to her relationship with her ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I would like some opinion on what kind of interactions should be considered OK between Ex-es if they are both in other relationship already? Some back story: My gf and I has been together for almost 2 years now, we have a great relationship and...

New girl wants my relationship status on facebook to change but I don't want to hurt my ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm unsure what to do. I've started seeing a girl, and straight away she wants me to change my relationship status on Facebook to "In A Relationship". Now, before you believe that THAT is my problem then please let me continue! Over t...

Why would my ex make a big scene with his new partner in front of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Why would my ex bf get off and make big scene with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other? But couldn't stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who...

Should I go for the new or hold out for the old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I am pregnant and 28. My new ex is 49. I have a met a new man who is 34. Anyway I don't know what to do about this. I have not been with the new man yet and am taking it extra slow. I want my ex back but he has ignored me for 5 wks now. So there ...

Why does he want me back when he clearly couldnt accept me the way I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My ex bf just told me he wants me back, but he is the one who broke up with me in the first place. During out relationship he was always pointing out all the things that he didnt like in me, such as my values and beleiefs and just generally my per...

If she really does love me surely she would be telling me more often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - i told my girlfriend i loved her a couple of nights ago in bed. She replyed " do you? I love you 2". she said she had been thinking it for a while. i was thinking maybe it was too early to tell her as wev only been together about a month and a ha...

Should I tell my ex why I'm mad at him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - So my cheating ex who has not talked to me in 8months and blocked me from everything...facebook, yahoo, games we played, his cell decided to contact me 2 weeks ago it started with a friend and on yahoo well then he started texting me and talkin...

Goint right into a relationship after ending a 3 year relationship with first love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I don't know if i am over the man of my past relationship that just ended so abruptly, he is very bitter about it but we had so much because it was first love. Do you agree you will always be attached to your first love? When ever i am ...

Everyone is saying "just get over it" but its not that easy to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My ex and I dated for a few years, he told me he wanted to be alone and didnt want a relationship. Ive recently found out he is actually seeing another girl now, I dont know what to do. I am so angry but mostly confused and I want answers from him ...

My daughter told me she was abused by my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - My daughter who is now 18 years old, told me last night that my ex-husband sexually abused her when she was 12 years old. I need help! Can we still press charges against this sexual abuser? The incident occured in New York. Can we presecute him? ...

How do I become more selfless in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for close to a year and a half. We are in our mid-twenties, and we have talked often about getting engaged soon and getting married. In other words, we're in a pretty serious and committed relationship. We have b...

What could my ex possible want from me after all this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - A couple of years back my ex left me and our kids to move in with another guy. It was pretty messy and she hasn't really had anything to do with the kids since. Now she's emailed me asking me to meet with her to talk and I really don't know what to ...