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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a bit confused about these feelings I am having about my ex. He broke up with me about 8 months and he has gotten back with his ex girlfriend since we broke up.We were very attracted to each other and there was a lot of passion in the relationship.I have sort of gotten over him but when I saw him for a friendly lunch (which I know I shouldn't have done since I am still getting over him) it's crazy how strong the chemistry is even when we are not being physical. There are a lot of great guys out there that I have tried to give a chace to--- but I don't feel that connection with anyone else. Even in any of my previous relationships --not even with my previous boyfriend who I loved and was with for 4 years. There wasn't this level of passion and attraction.It feels like there is soemthing between me and this last ex and we both hate it how strong it is. At one point we'd both look at each other and Say I hate you because of the way we make each other aroused. We wish it wasn't there but it is and we can't comletely let each other go because of it. I'm confused about these feelings. We will just see each other and there is this aura around us like we are going to attack each other out of lust, and this isn't only after the break up, this is how our relationship was also. If you see us together you'd think we are in love even if we aren't being physical. Its really weird. We also both admitted that we still fantasize about each other.He does have a gf he says he is trying to work it out with, so I know he doesn't want me back. And I know if he was truly crazy about me he would leave her, and thats not my question here. I am writing here because I'm just scared I won't ever have as passionate as a relationship as I did with him. The feeling is so addicting. How do I get over this feeling and not try to look for this with every guy I meet? I know this feeling is rare becaue I have had loving relationships before with attraction and lust but just not on this sort of almost like HIGH level. How do I make this an unimportant charactaristic. I know this sounds a little crazy, but need help;) Thank you!!!
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reader, ShadowGoddess231 +, writes (21 December 2009):
 Why did you break up in the first place?
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