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writes:Hi all, Theres this boy I speak to online. I have never met him before but I know hes not anyone werid as he only just stays 10 minutes from me and I know some of his family. He is 19 and I am only 15 I really really like him and I think I may be in love with him. He claims he feels the same way and we have been speaking non stop since the start of September. Were either speaking online or texting each other. We havent met each other because he has just turned 19 and I am only 15 and we realised that people might not accept us as a couple and we are supposed to be waiting until my 16th birthday to meet which is in April recently he hasn't been replying to my text's and I fear he may be ignoreing me and has met someone else even though he promised he would remain single until my birthday. I know he has credit in his phone as he has a contract phone I not sure weither to give up or not as my last boyfriend ignored me when we split up. He has not text me since Sunday morning and I don't know what to do :( Please help !! xxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much everyone your making me think positive xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 Dear,
I think him also waiting for your birthday. OR maybe He is taking his time because he is going to make a relationship with you. So don’t worry. I hope everything will be fine.
When you can…. just contact with him and start with something sweet but don’t make him feel that you are worried about him.
But if you have any doubt about him then its better to ask him directly so that you can have your answer direct. But HOPE for the best and ready for the WORST.
My English is not so good. So please forgive me if my words hurt you any way.
Best of luck
Take care
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reader, pietry  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 Online relationships can be very charming but very tricky. You have the impression that you really know the person, but in fact you mostly fall in love for the image that you actually have in mind for him and that you create, and not the real person. And when you actually meet the person, you think you know him, but you see unfamiliar reactions or something different than you knew. This could lead to a double personality : the one you see in him and the other one that you chat with when you go home. They might be the same inside but it's a big expressing difference.
To cut things short, don't assume you really know him. I know it sounds painful but it's something to better know now.
There could be a lot of possible reasons for why he isn't answering, but don't assume the worst. He might have a problem and so is unable to answer. Try to find out what's happening to him it's not the time to give up just like that. Even if he found somebody else or is ignoring, better to know then just die out of torn
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