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Should I continue working on this dead relationship?

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Question - (16 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2009)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey guyz im 18 and very confused. my bf of 2 years is an absolute dork. he hurts me and cheats and neva apologises. ive tried leavin him but i always cum runing bk. and nw hes introduced me to hs family. what i want to know is should i continue workin on dis dead realtnshp ?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

hey there, stop going back to him!! Once a cheat then always a cheat. If youy keep going back to him he'll just keep doing it, and it will also damage your confidence and trust. The best thing to do is just leave him, don't try flirting with other guys infront of him or anything like that as you'll just make yourself look and possibly feel stupid. Just go out and enjoy yourself with your mates and meet someone new. Hope it works out

Ric xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

if you love someone so much then let them go, if they come back again thats how you know if hes for keeps!

if u do finish him be a strong woman, be 'not botherd' dont call txt or msn him, make youself look hot and flirt around in front of him and his mates, keep on track with your pysical apearance work out, dress up for example. dont go begging guys dont do sympthy.

after this little break he'll either come running back or he wont, if he doesnt hedoesnt love you im affraid and you'll have to enjoy your single life for a while then settle down later me thinks!

i hope you get something sorted you deserve to be happy =]

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A male reader, Kepi United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2009):

Kepi agony auntWe find it hard to break up from these type of relationships, I speak from experience, be honest with yourself, do you want to be treated like this for the rest of your life????

Just because he's introduced you to his family does this mean you have to stay with him? Nope, you've said its a dead relationship, accept it as that and move on :)

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