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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey :)Well ive just started a new job as a waitress, and ive met lots of new people. Theres a guy who works behind the bar, and im sorta interessted in him. But I dont think he would be interessted back for the following reasons:Im the youngest at work and im sorta 'the baby' even though im 17. I think hes 18, and the others are 19 up to about 28.Hes drop dead gorgous, no kidding hes possibly the best looking guy ever, so why would he want me? On the other hand, he doesnt really know anyone else, cos he lives in the pub.I only work part time, whereas hes full time so I dont see him as much as the other girls there.. although theres only 3 of them, and one has a date, one is getting it on with another guy, and one is a little older I think. But you never know.But yeah, its just a little crush, but Id like to get to know him better and stuff. He invited me out with them, but I cant cos im underage.. and hes very friendly and stuff.. im just not sure how to go about getting him to see me as a girl, rather than a friend.Although I did go to the pub for a meal recently and dressed up, so he could see I dont always look so awful with my hair scraped back for work!Any ideas? :)THANK YOU!xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 December 2009):
Yes, first of all, quit putting yourself down. We men like women to have confidence in themselves. And how can you say he won't like you? You haven't really got to know him much yet, so start there. Get to know him more. He did invite you out, so you know he at least wants you to be part of his life. And also, he isn't going out with any of the other girls is he? Find out more about him, flirt a little, show that you're interested. He might catch on :). What have you got to lose by trying? Nothing. What have you got to gain :). Be brave, and just get to know him more. Then, when you know him and if you still like him, ask him for a date. Be brave.
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