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writes:hi i'm amanda, i'm 17 and so is my boyfriend, josh. we've been dating for 7 months. ive been really upset lately and i don't know what to do about it. i have a feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me. He's always around his ex girlfriend, jessica who is 18. they are friends and i understand that. I wouldn't mind so much if they spent time together but what bugs me is that she still has feelings for him. i know this for a fact. And she posts these things on her web page that are personal questions that she answers. it will ask if she has kissed anyone in the last month, or who the last person to say 'i love you' to her was and she'll answer 'yes' or ':)' which makes me suspicious. because it gets me thinking if she still has feelings for josh and she's happy about kissing someone in the past month wouldn't it make sense that the only person that would make her happy about that is josh? i don't mean to be a really jealous person but i've been through this before and i really don't want to experience it again. i don't want to ask or accuse him of cheating when i'm not sure but i don't want to be played. what do i do? please help me.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 December 2009):
Talk to him and tell him that since you've been cheated on in the past it's bothering you that he spends so much time with her.
Tell him you trust him but need a bit of reassurance and for him to perhaps spend a bit less alone time with her.
Good Luck!! xx
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