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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:i think im attracted to my good freind who is 100% straight. I value her as a friend way too much to ever act on my feelings or tell her and I know it will never happen, I dont really want it to happen as it will totally ruin our frienship and shes never speak to me again. Im gay shes not,shes knows i am and is 100% OK with it. When shes drunk or under the influence of alcoho she will sometimes hold my hand and hug me, as she does with other ppl, when sober shes very reserved emotionally and not affectionate.this measn nothing I know, its the alcohol talkingi dont want to lose my freindship and have NO intention of acting on this feeling, has anyone else been through this and what did they do?thanks
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reader, Tine  +, writes (4 May 2009):
 a close friend of mine went through the exact same problem a while back and to be truthful sweetie, she actually acted on her instincts and made a move. Worst thing she ever done to be honest! The girl got really offended, and hasn't spoken to her since!If shes your best friend and you have no intention on acting on this then really i think you should stick to your word. Once under the influence of alcohol everyone kisses and hugs their friends, its harmless and i think maybe your reading a bit too much into this. If shes 100% straight then i think you should stick to your word and say nothing.
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