A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, I have been seeing this girl for about four months and I really care about her a lot. Things have been sort of rocky. Sometimes she just doesnt seem interested in me and other times it seems like she is really interested in me. She tells me she likes me a lot and likes hanging out but sometimes I think she is lying because she doesnt act like it all the time. I care about her so much and just wish I knew what she thought about me. Am I being obsessive and ignoring the fact that she says she likes me a lot or is she just using me?Thanks to everyone! Reply to this Question |
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female
reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (5 May 2009):
 Everyone wants their alone time. I think she likes you.
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female
reader, crazykit666  +, writes (5 May 2009):
Ok, I am only speaking from personal experience here but...
a) Maybe she doesn't know how to expres how she's feeling. I recently spent a year with a guy and just COULDN'T say those three little words, even though sometimes I felt I was going to explode inside! My point is, some people just are very good at expressing themselves. In the end, I lost him. He left me because he found someone else and didn't think I was too bothered about him. If this is the case, I hope your lady learns from my mistake.
b) she may be scared to get too emotionally involved/scared to get hurt. You never mention much about her. If she has quite a loud, expressive, outgoing personality then I'm surprised that she isn't expressive with you. However, if she is quite quiet/shy/insecure/low self-esteem etc, see a) .
c) she may be a messing you around.
However, only you can judge this situation. I'm just going on the facts I have. Maybe you should talk to her and ask her what's going on? You need to prioritze YOU in this relationship. Make sure that above everythin you are happy!
Good luck!! x
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