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writes:Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now (we're both 17) and i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to tackle his sister and mother. His dad and i get on really well and my boyfriend has told me that his family really like me. However his mum is often rather brisk with me and she gives me vibes of disprovement all the time. His sister is fairly nice, but she sometimes gives me unwelcoming looks and doesnt really talk that much to me. shes about 14 so i can see that she is at that 'difficult age'. I feel upset about this because my family are always really welcoming to him. I dont realy know how to handle this and i was wondering if anyone could give me advice on how to please his mother and sister. Reply to this Question
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reader, waza2007 +, writes (27 April 2007):
you shouldnt worry about his mother or sister - they may be a bit scared of you because they are the only women currently in his life. but thats their problem and if you worry about they it may have an affect on your relationshipmaybe this might helplv, fellow britain'er, Waza x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): just be you, you should have to please anyone besides him im not saying to be rude but you shouldnt have to prove your self just be happy that you and him are together and his mom might just feel as your taking her baby boy away but she might warm up to later when she sees how happy you make him and hes sister is at an age were ok i really dont care and just isnt being mean or nice and isnt worried about her brothers life but hers and its better you dont talk to his sister she might start some unneeded trouble so just be happy with your man and deal with it.
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