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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

So how do I make him forgive me for ignoring him because he was neglecting me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is so upset and mad with me right now because we had an arguement because of me. Bassically I got annoyed at him because he didn't give me much time since he was busyt with his work. So I got very frustrated and then just started ...

How can I stop these affecting me and most of all how can I beat him at his own games without speaking to him directly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - An ex bf of mine who is a real nasty piece of work has recently taken to playing small mind games while I'm at college. It's nothing massive but just small things. He's taken to deliberately walking past me and is constantly in and around places I ...

I told him it wasn't working out and now he's all psycho

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hi, this might drag on but ill try not to ramble! So i have just split up with somone because he didnt want a relationship he now has a new girlfriend and im finding it hard to get over it. Anyway just after we broke up a new boy came to our scho...

I told a married man how I feel and now he has distanced himself from me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I am not sure if I did the right thing or not. I am a married woman and I recently told my married friend how I feel about him. It was just killing me keeping it inside because I thought he felt the same way about me and that there w...

Am I crazy for leaping into this new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hey there... I am so confused. I'd been in a relationship for 6 years and I just fell in love with somebody else. I feel terrible because I of course had to leave my bf to be with this new guy (a friend I'd known for yearsm actually... not that new) ...

Ex is making me upset, do I tell the new boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - This is a really difficult one for me. My ex who was horrible to me (read my previous question to understand) is causing me to feel upset - not because I miss him, care about him or anything like that. But because yet again, I've asked him to col...

She 'needs some space to regroup'?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - A little background, we're both 27, have been officially together for the past 6 months. Everything was going very well, having serious talks about moving in with each other and eventually letting each other know that we found exactly who we were ...

How do I trust him again? I don't want to be controlling and jealous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - so I’m having a problem with my relationship I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 months he’s perfect well sometimes... I’m very jealous and controlling I honestly want to stop being that way.. I don’t know to tho the reason I’m so jealous is because ...

How would I know if he wants me back or if we are back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - What do you think? does he love me? are we getting back together? My ex bf and broke up cos he felt like he didn't deserve me. He had a one night stand with some girl. and he felt bad so he ended it. I was a good gf to him, I loved him, d...

Why wouldn't he want me to come with him on this trip? Should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - All, my boyfriend and i hv been together for a year. Im 27 and hes 28. Im sometimes jealous and its been a rocky relationship. I dont think he ever cheated but he is a big flirt and has a high sex drive. Now he wants to go on a vacation alone t...

What should I do if I run into the ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - My friends have invited me to see a band early nest year. The thing is its where my ex and his friends hang out. I haven't seen or spoken to my ex since we brokeup. We dated a year and out of the blue, he dumped me by text. When I asked for closure, ...

Am I cheater? Is this really that bad? I need help

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - I was in a relationship with the girl of my dreams! She was seriously the most amazing person on this planet and we had so much fun together. I Miss her so much. I would kill for her and die for her in a second. She means the world to me. I wanted ...

What would make a guy start to ignore a woman like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - ok, here is the problem, so i have been talking to this guy for a while and everything was goin really great, i felt like i had known him forever and when we hung out , our connection felt like it became stronger, even he said so himself. So all of ...

For some reason, I'm very insecure and can't trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - okay so me and my boyfriend been together for a little bit more than 4 months and i truley love him.. i knew him before we got together, i love him more than he claims he loves me..For some reason, i cant trust him, he hasnt cheated on me from what ...

Living with boyfriend and his friend... a disaster! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Need honest advice! Please! I am 24 and currently live with my boyfriend of a year (he's about same age) and there's another room which became available over a month ago - so we needed a third house mate. My boyfriend was keen for one ...

Idealistic Love VS Realistic Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Idealistic love is attraction, intimacy, perfection. Realistic love is attraction AND attachment, intimacy AND commitment and perfection found in imperfection. Everyone wants to be in idealistic love. Fact: It only happens in fantasies, movie...

Can you think the world of someone and not want to be with them ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - If a guy says he thinks the world of you,what does it mean ?.i'm confused as this guy i was seeing said that even after we stopped seeing each other.one of his friends told me that he said that to him after we broke up and another of his friends ...

Did he ever care? How can I move on from all this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Three years ago my now ex and I broke up. we were from different cultures and religions and he decided that his family would disown him and things could not go further after three and a half years and the best part of our younger days together. Fo...