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writes:Hey there... I am so confused. I'd been in a relationship for 6 years and I just fell in love with somebody else. I feel terrible because I of course had to leave my bf to be with this new guy (a friend I'd known for yearsm actually... not that new) and I'm setting up for a brand new life with him. I am eager to leave, to move, to find a job and I feel invincible. But sometimes, and the though keeps me awake at nite, I can't sleep, can't eat and feel generally awful is: have I made the right decision? What if things don't work out with my current bf? Did I made a stupid decision? I dunno. All I know is I'm so in love and I just couldn't stand to live a quiet life doing a job I hate in a place I hate next to a good guy. Am I crazy? Tell me I won't regret it...
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (19 September 2011):
 Hi,
Firstly deal with the good guy first. He is a good guy, you weren't happy regardless of the new guy, job you hate, quiet place. Boring. Therefore, you needed to leave.
The other guy may work out along with anyone elses chances. It could last for ever, no one could know. I think what I would say would be it could be the speed at which this is happening which could be giving you doubts. New guy, new things, and it's all going fast. Is there a way you could slow things down at all? Just to give yourself a bit of breathing space to make sure you feel good. It could be the speed at which things are happening. But love does this!
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