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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Ex won't take no for an answer and has anger issues, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - He won't take no for an answer and he's been violent in the past so I'm scared of what to do next. :( Texts: (btw, the guy he's talking about is my best mate.) Him: y cant i b ur bf still?xxx Me: Cause you argue about the same stuff everyday an...

To go or not to go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, he has two children from a previous marriage. When we first started dating I wasn't sure if I wanted children or marriage. Now I know I do want one (a child) and I would like to get married. I am getting ...

I am confused, I love and hate my ex boyfriend, how can I keep my cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I am confused I love and hate my ex boyfriend. I know i can never date him again cuz he was a jerk and would use me but that was at the end in the begining he was realy sweet and kind, thats why i love him but now were over and hes being a real big ...

He's insisting on seeing me and I don't know if I can do it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - so i broke up with my bf, and he insists on being on good terms with me.. i know he loves me and he might have hope or maybe im wrong. but he just asked me out to dinner and hes like im not asking u im telling you. i want us to be good terms and we ...

How to avoid the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - MOD NOTE: POSTERS ORIGINAL TITLE I am a 38 year old male who just got out of a 9 month physically, emotionally, psychologically and mentally abusive relationship with a 34 year old woman. She had two children. At first the relationship was...

Am I a lesbian? Will I ever fall in love again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - So I haven't had feelings for a guy since last year. I went out with this guy and he gave me goose bumps, he made me smile and laugh. But he cheated on me, then he dumped me by getting my two friends to call me up. Three days later he had a new ...

Is the way I'm feeling normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5246 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice re my situation. 9 months ago I split up with my partner of 7 years because he walked out after a series of arguments which I think were mainly caused by him being depressed and at that time he was verbally...

How do I make him realise he is better off with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have a guy friend who I'm extremely close with. He has a girlfriend who has been giving him nothing but grief for ages. I care strongly about him and knows he feels the same way, but I have told him I'll support him no matter what and understand ...

I want a relationship, but I'm worried he just wants to be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - My relationship with this man goes a long way back. We were together 2 years ago for about 5 months but ended it because he was depressed after having come out of a 7-year engagement that ended up badly. We didn't speak for months after that, until ...

She put me in the friend zone and then broke up with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - So I had been dating this girl for a year and a half and she started acting more distant. I pressed her on it and she said she no longer has romantic feelings for me. She said she has never felt so comfortable with a boyfriend before and she ...

Do I forget about him forever... or do I keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because I asked him to answer his phone or to call me back soon and before he goes to sleep whenever he goes to a party with his friends. I didnt even like the idea of him going to a party to begin with but i was ...

I thought my ex cheated so I left rude voice messages. Now I want him back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: OP, if you post any replies to this thread, please use proper case. 'Talking' not 'tawken'] im 16 yrs old and i have been tawken t0 this b0y that use t0 be my b0yfriend until my ex bestie t0ld me he cheated 0n me s0 me and her sent...

My ex is threatening to rape me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

14 December 2009 (?) - help! im 16 and i jus broke up with my now ex bf who is 19 bc he kept pressuring me to have sex. now he wont leave me alone! he keeps txting me, threatening tht he is going to rape me! his texts say: "listen beautiful, u know u want me, and your gona...

I feel guilty and can't decide!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - [Note: All names are changed for privacy.] My girlfriend, "Jane," wanted to take a break from our relationship, partly because she was weary of my uncertainty about whether I was committed to the relationship. During the break in our relati...

Does he want me yes or no? I need an answer so that I can deal with issues and move on with my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Ok I used to date this guy like 2 years ago and he lived on the same street that I did and the Chemistry was there and everything so I wound up getting pregnant and I did the un thnkable thing and got a abortion I regret it everyday but I wound up ...

I want to find the bubbly person I used to be, and be her again.

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14 December 2009 (F) - Well let's see where to start well my now exboyfriend and I broke couple days ago and the reason was because I felt as tho we have been a relationship for a year and he has no rletionship with my eight year old so i felt like I was being split in ...

Break up help...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I know what I need to do, but... ...but I still need reassurance? Strength? My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. He comes to see me twice a month and stays at my house. We talk to each other every day. I wanted to go see...