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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Am I wrong to hold on to hope that we can work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost six years is in prison for dui-related offenses that happened years ago. We have broken up off and on due to trust issues. When he went to prison he asked me to move all his stuff into my storage shed and gave me his bank ...

Should I keep in contact with my ex or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend had dated for almost a year and just brock up last month. well we seem to keep going back to each kissing and even having sex. and i just started liking this guy and not sure what to do. my ex is still talking to me everyday and ...

He said he'd call, but he hasn't. will he?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I was with my exboyfriend for 2 years. We lived together and were seriously talking about marriage. I made a huge mistake and moved out. I was really stressed out and thought he was the cause. Now that I have moved out, I am miserable and want him ...

I am having second thoughts about my up coming wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my fiance' for 5 years now. We have a 3 year old son together who has major health problems, he has already undergone 5 open heart surgeries. My fiance' and I are getting married in March 2010 but I'm really having ...

I fight to get my anger out now he has walked away!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so i just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, we are very very serious, we've already discussed marriage.The problem with me is that i fight to get my anger out. We have been fighting for over a week now, everyday. It is always my fault and i ...

How can I make things right again for us, the way it was at the beginning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I'll try to make this short. Me and my ex dated for 2 1/2 years, we lived together for the last year. I loved her with all my heart and so did she. She broke up with me when our lease was up, about 2 months after she turned 21, (I'm 23). She ...

After a serious break up can a guy still be friends with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - After a serious break up can a guy still be friends with his ex? She pleaded and cried that I still be her friend. I said "no" and have maintained no contact thus far. she hasn't tried to call or anything. She hurt me pretty badly (refer to: ...

I sometimes feel as though I can never fall in love again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i was in a relationship wid a guy for 2 yrs. we broke up last yr coz his mother didnt accept me since i didnt belong to that caste. the guy got married within 6 months. but am still struggling to get over him. sometimes i feel i am over him...

Is he playing hard to get or trying to push me away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - hey, okay so here's the thing: i know this guy....lets call him J. Me and J were together a while back, when we first met, but it ended badly and we didnt speak for nearly a year. About four months ago though we started talking again and he's been ...

If I don't chase her will she lose interest or lose the love she has for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - hi. my name is mike. i met my ex girlfriend last november and we have had a fantastic relationship. she would tell me everyday how much she loves me and how much she appreciates me. we never fight and we have always been on the same page. there is a ...

He kept ignoring me so I broke it off with him. How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - This is abit long please read til the end It all started out with him forgetting to call me at times and his excuse for this was "i fell asleep", and we went from speaking 3 to 4 hours a night to just 2 and i didn't see him on msn much. He had...

I really want this relationship to work but I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i have been dating a boy that i love with all my heart for 1 year and 7 month. I am not going to go off saying hes completely horrible because i dont think he is. sometime he is very sweet and caring. I met him second year of college and i left ...

I've been dumped, but am unsure if I should leave the door open for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 9 months. He said he didn't feel the same way about me that he did when he first got together with me, and he thinks the relationship is pretty much doomed. He told me he wants to think about things and call me ...

I said "no way! no more! so he blocked me on myspace, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - We've Ben together for 9 months, kinda off and on. We got back together Sunday night and I thought everythin was fine now. We talked about life and kids ad marriage and then bam! Last night I find iut he's cheating on me.. For 3 weeks with this girl ...

I called it quits but now want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

After 12 years of friendship I have been dumped because God told him I wasnt the right woman

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Today wasn't really a good day my boyfriend and I broke up a couple days ago and this is really hurting becaus him and I have been friend for almost 12 years so Ialready loved him well u see he's started getting into church but in the process he ...

He has me confused, is he messing with me?

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16 December 2009 (F) - I need some advise. I dated a guy for about two months. When I met him things moved at his pace. I met his fam right away and he made me his girlfriend. I thought nuthing of it, but i knew things had moved to fast since I had been in a long term ...

Was I a rebound girl or did he end things because I was moving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - So the guy that I was seeing ended things with his ex a few months before seeing me. (I didn't ask him about his past or anything.. I found out from him afterwards) We saw each other for two months when I told him that I was moving (just 20 minutes ...

Who gets custody of our child before we go to court?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - me and my wife of 5 years are splitting up. we have a 1 year old child. who has rights of the childs custody till we go to custody court? I live in indiana ...

I feel trapped in this relationship! No way out of this box!

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16 December 2009 (F) - I am in a 4 year relationship. I wouldn't call it an abusive relationship but my friends do. He is very over protective over me but somtimes it feels good 2 kno somone cares so much. We'v had good times aswel as bad. Last year, September,he left me, ...

Am I correct in thinking he used his son as an excuse to cancel our wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to marry him a few weeks after his son left for Afghanistan for 1 year. Two days before our wedding he told me we had to wait for another year. He could not get married without his son being present. I was in total shock ...