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Archived questions from: 6 December, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Trouble gaining closure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I am having trouble gaining closure with my relationship as I still can't get to grips with the fact that my boyfriend severed contact with me with no explanation after nearly 2 1/2 years together. I don't want people to say 'what a jerk' an...

Is it true that the girl that gets away is the one you always want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - I have a question I'd like to ask to most guys who have been through something like this but any advice would help. Is it true that the girl that gets away is the one you always want? I was in a relationship and I was in love with her and she told ...

Can he get away with leaving me nowhere to live and without my belongings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I know I'm feeling sorry for myself, I feel tricked and not sure what to do. After asking my husband for a divorce in the heat of the moment, I left for a few weeks to think about it. I came back to him and suggested we go for counselling,...

I can't force myself to go on anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I have broken up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago and we had been together almost 8 years. He went to study abroad and we therefore decided to split, but its very very hard and i cry everyday. The thing is im also suffering from p...

I feel stuck in my own personal rut and I don't know how to get out of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up today. We had our first arguement 2 months ago and things went downhill from there. His response to the arguement was to ignore me for half a week, my response was feeling very insecure and felt I was walking on ...

Unsure on how to proceed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Hey, I have been going out with this guy for 5 months now, at first it was great we spent time together he baught me flowers a few times and we went out on walks, baught each other meals and things. I was introduced to all his friends, they were ...

I don't understand why the tables aren't turned, after all I've done for him he should be the one begging to be with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I will give you some background information first: I've been with this guy for 6 years. We broke up last October due to his family problems and he freaked out and pushed me away. I am 21 and we started "dating" when I was 14--young I know, but our ...

Do you think I did the right thing letting him know that I recognize my mistake and giving him a timescale to come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me a few days ago because 'he didn't want the commitment of a girlfriend anymore'. Obviously I was devastated, but agreed with the break up and wished him the best, I didn't beg or plead. Just this morning, I e-mailed ...

Is he letting me down softly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I don't know where to start but here it goes... A year ago I was going through a separation with my husband. I began seeing a fellow co-worker as a casual fling. He pursued hard and we eventually began dating. We broke up on and off over the cour...

I think my girl is going through a phase and I hope she gets over it soon!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - I know this is really long to read but it was the only way to get you to know what is exactly going on and exactly how I feel. Thank you so much for your time. I am 21 years old I have had many short term girlfriends and relationships with gir...

Why is she being so cold even after me changing and being there for her?

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6 December 2009 (M) - Hi there, I am new on this site and I really need advice, ok so I have been seeing a girl for a year right now, I love her so much with every second of my day I have her in my mind, when we met we had so much love for each other, she was the most ...

We have both moved on but I still get a little jealous of his new girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Long story short: The ex and I broke up about a year ago after a two-year relationship. We then went on to hook up randomly throughout the last year even while dating other people. Also including once recently while I've been dating another guy. I ...

We have broken up but she doesn't want to stay connected with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - hi, me and my gf who i really cared about broke up a couple months ago we dated for a year in were actually in love.things when bad like most tyoung relationships do(im 19, she is 17). Our relationship was still good though and im not getting over ...

I broke up with Sam, and I kissed John who told me Sam still loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Recently on a night out, I began talking to my friend John. We had kissed once but he has been going out with his current girlfriend for over a year. This doesnt bother me, but as i was the designated driver that night i remember everything he said ...

I know I love her but does she deserve it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with this woman for a year and a half now. I found out about 4 months ago that she had slept with another man after we got into a fight and she stayed at a friends house. I broke things off immediately and tried to ...

We broke up due to cheating, but now she is cheating with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - 5 Months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend with whom I'd had sex with and with whom I'd been with for a year and a half. She was too jealous and too clingy, and as a result of this, she split up my whole group of friends, as they felt they couldn't ...