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male
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36-40,
*lueback23
writes:I've been with this girl for about a year and a half. We have broken up a couple of times and have always gotten back together. She has always seemed just soooo into me, I know she is/was. Well the past few months I have just been suspicious of her so yesterday I looked at her text messages and there are 2 texts from a number that say "You are a beautiful thing" and another one with an address. These messages are are from March 09, right at the time she went to FL to see her 2 girlfriends and the address is in the town where they live. What I don't get is if that address is her friends then why is it from a number not saved in her phone, she has her two friends saved in her phone. What else is odd is that for as long as I have known her she has always deleted all of her text messages, incoming and outgoing, and she claims she just doesn't like the clutter but now the only messages in her inbox are from myself and this number and the only messages in her outbox are to me.This all has me very confused and it makes me feel very insecure. I am not that type of person whatsoever and it is only because lately I feel like we have been growing apart. I saw her for the first time in a week yesterday and I told her I love her twice and she didn't respond once. I think I am just being paranoid but I cannot come up with a logical explanation for the "You are a beautiful thing" text along with the address. It just doesn't add up.Do you guys think she is messing around on me? Thanks for any help, I don't know who to talk to.
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 Hi, it does sound a bit iffy.. you probably need to sit her down and ask her straight out who the text was from, and is she carrying on with someone else? she will be annoyed that you have checked her messages, but it seems as though you have been feeling quite ycuk about it all along. It;'s not nice feelibg suspicious all the time is it? you really do need to clear the air. if you don;t wnant to mention the text messages - just say to her without any fear;' I get the impression you are seeing someone else. are you? ' now , you should be able to judge by the way she reacts, then it;s up to you to decide. ALso, the fact that she didn;t respond to your telling her you love her looks a bit dodgy. SHe may not be seeing anyone else, but you may be growing apart - and you need to talk to her about this to put your mind at rest, as it is a bit unfair on you for you to continue going along with it feeling so insecure. My advice would be to talk to her asap, and tell her how you feel - you should get in inkling of what;s going on from there. I wish you all the luck. NatMArie
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