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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I have two men on the go at the moment. Any insight into this?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have found myself in a situation where I have two men in love with me, both of which are younger than myself. I am petite, successful, educated and attractive, look many years younger than my age (41). I do not feel comfortable with having two ...

He invited me to functions and I had other plans. Now he won't call.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I just met this guy three weeks ago. He is 6yrs younger than me. I love him but the age gap gives me problems. I'm a single mother of a 15yr old son while he has 11yr old son and 8yr old daughter from his previous relationship which he chose to ...

I like him as a teacher; his staring bothers me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi I have a problem to discuss need some advices. There is a teacher at my school he stares at me a lot, and everyday I enter the classroom he always makes an eye contact with me. I heard that he even got married a few months ago. I like him as t...

20 years old...in love with a 51 y/o who wants a future with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I'm a 20 year old gal in love with a 51 year old man,who wants a future with me, what must i do? please help!!!!!...

Does an age difference cause arguments?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - My last two girlfriends were both 18 when we started going out; I was 27. Why do I seem to always want to go for younger women, around that age? Does age difference cause arguments as well?...

When we are close, my teacher gets physically hesitant and somewhat nervous. Is it a sign he likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I go to a private coed boarding school. Teachers and students are encouraged to become close, and we will often visit each other at each other's homes to say hi and whatnot. I'm close with a lot of my teachers, but I find myself attracted to one...

Is liking a 13 year old girl wrong, since I am 16?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - hi, i recently been hanging around with a girl, i really like her but im 16 and she is 13 is this wrong if i was to ask her out cos of the age difference? bearing the fact that i dont want sex i just want her ...

Is it bad to go out with a 17 yr old male if you are 15?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Is it bad to go out with a 17 yr old male if ur 15?...

A question on younger men and older women..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Im curious, how many young men (30's mid 40's) stay with the woman they are dating down the road? I have three g/f's now dating men ten yrs younger than them, although attractive women now (very), at 55 (when their boyfriends will just be 45) will ...

Is it healthy to date two similar men at the same time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - Do you think my relationship is healthy? Im in love with 2 men and they both know. I fist fell in love with (will call him Guy) Guy is 10 years older then me, I honestly dont care about that, the issue is he does humantarian work in Africa and we...

Why do younger men fall for older women?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Why do younger men fall for older women? This keeps happening to me, and lately a relationship with a man 9 years younger is getting quite serious... I am worried that this is just a passing fancy....

My Dad ignores me...is this why I always go for older men to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I have this thing where i always fancy older men, and by that i mean aged between 25 and about 40...its really bad, and my friends are a bit like wtf.... i know the only reason i am attracted to them is because im looking for a fatherly figure ...

Should I let him go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

20 January 2008 (F) - I am dating a man 16 years older then I am. He was in the middle east for a while and met someone while he was there. She send him texts and even calls him. When I am not around he will take the calls and even text her back. Today I found a text he ...

19 years old...is sex with my 16 yo gf wrong??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 January 2008 (M) - I am an 19 year old and im currently in a relationship with a 16 year old girl. I am in madly in love with her and i have never felt this way about anyone else. I've been with her for over 6 months now and we are ready for sex, but im not sure whe...

I want to stay with him....but should I tell him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

20 January 2008 (F) - hey, My bfs just finished me after 2 months, i really really really like him and we always have a laugh together. I just thought we we're good together. I called him tonight and he said we should split up cos he doesnt feel right. He's 16...

How should I go about making our relationship something more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots...

Did I make a mistake by not telling him I am a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - hi everyone, ive recently had my first kind of relationship but it only lasted 3 weeks the guy i was kind of seeing was a lot older then me and more exprienced he had 3 children,anyway i stayed round his house about 4 times and really wanted to have ...

Is it ok for a senior to date a sophmore??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - I like her a lot but the age diffrance has me a little worried and people at my school tend to call people cradle robbers etc when they date people who are not in the same grade. I really like her but I want to make sure its ok for me to date her. ...

I work at a school and am having feelings for this young male student. Advice is needed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - I work in a school, and have been working with a 18 year old male student for a number of years. About five months ago I realized that I have strong feelings for him and what an awesome person he is. I have never told him how I felt (its my ...

Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

15 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...

I find older men really sexy...is this normal?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

15 January 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and I'm almost quite worried about myself. In the past few years Ive noticed I always get the hots for elder men. I dont mean old pensiors! But like men in their 30s and 40s, and I don't like anyone near my age at all. I just find older men ...

Am I being used and being made a fool of? I love her but I can't cope with this, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

15 January 2008 (F) - I am a 42 year old women who is in a relationship with a 26 year old woman. When we met she was in a relationship with a man for 3 years and they have a daughter and I was in a relationship with a woman for 3 years. Her relationship was very ...

I'm 16, he's 31 and I met him online. Should I meet him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Hey im 16 i have been talking to this guy online for a few months. To start with i didnt knw his age n he didnt know mine. I recently found out he's 31 he thought i was about 19 but now knows im 16. We both like eachother but know it would be kinda...

Too young to have a boyfriend at 18? Is she just playing hard to get or is she being serious?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - i like this young girl .she's 18 i am 24.i met her at a music concert when she walked up to me after i greeted her and i ended up buying her a drink.so i thought the lady likes me.afterwards if she sees me in town she would greet me smiling and ...

I Love him and I always will. - My english teacher

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - I am a average and very mature 14 years old. Due to the fact I have had to grow up a lot quicker than others due to family errors. I have suddenly lost all sense of maturity and all common sense full stop. I am in love with my English teacher as he ...

Was this the right thing to do?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

12 January 2008 (M) - I caught my 12 year old niece smoking cigarettes with her friend. I was going to tell her mom, as I was bringing her home she said that if she gave me a blowjob can I forget about it? We pulled down a back road and she sucked me off in my car, S...

We are trying to enjoy our final months together but I am not always sure how he feels.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now with a man who is a fair bit older than me. He's my best friend, my first boyfriend and I am very much in love with him and am always trying to show how much he means to me. But, being a fairly u...

I'm 15 and he's 20...is this ok??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - Hi, Im 15 atm and I met a fantastic guy in the summer. He is 20. We have both had feelings for each other for about 10 months now and he wants us to have a relationship. He is a good person and he wont do anything with me until im 16 in feb 08 but ...

How can I show my teacher I am there for him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's this English teacher at my school (his name is Mr. Chumley;...but I rarely ever say it whenever I'm referring to him...lol). Mr. Chumley is pretty much everything BUT your typical teacher.He's really young (twenty-six), he...

The thought of making love to my husband repulses me. Should I end the marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I have been married to the "perfect" man for 15 years. We do not have children together (he has had a vasectomy) but he has children from his first marriage although they are now grown up. I have a job that I love (fitness instructor) but does not ...

How do I deal with this younger guys infatuation??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - How can I help a guy half my age who is completely infatuated with me get out of this?...

2 Years Younger Than me, And My Boss' Son. Do You Rekon I Should tell Him How I Feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Hiya, OKaaay, Im 16 and I like my boss' son who is nearly 15. Not really sure if he likes me or not but even though he's younger than me he doesn't really act it and he's quite mature. I really like this guy but dont know if it's a problem beca...

Is it normal to think of naked pre-teen boys and girls when masturbating?

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Hi, I am 18, but I am NOT sick. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I think of naked pre-teen boys and girls. Is this normal?...

Met a man online, he's much older and suggested that I lose virginity to him! I am not sure what to do.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) - hi i have meet this man online. at first he used to annoy me but now he is easy to talk to and a right laugh. he is very forward though and has never hid the fact that he likes me. he has given me confidence about my hourglass size 14 figure...

Sex with underaged - why is this case exceptional regarding punishment?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

10 January 2008 (M) - i have an 18 yr old mate who has just been to court for sex with a girl 13. now take in mind that he is 18. he says hes not on the sex offenders register has no sex offenders programme to go on and is allowed to carry on seeing this child. i al...

My gf will not make any concessions, while I am not expected to want or act incongruently with her admission. What is going on here? How can we correct this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

6 January 2008 (M) - I'm writing because my girlfriend of about two years and I are having some issues. I would say there are lots of them, but I'm convinced the majority of our issues are consequential to a couple "core" issues. First things first. I'm 27, she is 2...

I am becoming interested in him as he is nice and respectful, but is he too old for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm 15 years old, and a 19 years old guy likes me. He's really nice and respectful. I'm becoming interested in him, But I'm thinking it's not right of me. Is this guy too old? [Added] Hello, I've posted a question here recently, But another ...

What can he or I do to increase his sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

6 January 2008 (M) - How do you get a man more interested in sex and intimacy? My boyfriend aged 40 is only really interested less than once a week. If I say I am finding that really hard and not enough it increases for a while but then drops back again. What can he or ...

Is it possible to have a connection with an older acquaintance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

5 January 2008 (M) - i think i'm in love, i mean i know it for sure. The problem is that she's way much older than me. At least this is what she's telling me everytime we meet. She used to be my nanny, i know it sounds ridiculous, but she was more like a companion, i ...

I'm underage and our secret is out. What now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - There is a guy i know and we really like each other but he has a girlfriend and I dont want to break them up as she hasnt done anything wrong to me so I can't steal her boyfriend as revenge. I know the guy thinks about me alot as he has told me. her ...

Does he fancy me? Should I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - hi i met this guy last year he is 21 years older than me, he doesn't have a wife kids or girlfriend. we started talking then it got a little more serious. but then it all got out and people started laughing and joking about it and made matters ...

Underage and having a relationship with a married man! - what do I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - Im in a relationship with a married man and i think im falling in love with him. I also really want to sleep with him but im under age by three years.please help and give me some advice on what to do....

I have a feeling my parents won't approve. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - Ok.... so I'm sort of seeing someone, he lives quite far away.... nearly 200 miles, we've not met up since we've been seeing each other, but have met up more than once before (for group meets, for a shared hobby!). I will be seeing him in a ...

Would it be alright if we used a condom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - i have just recently started going out with this 17 year old...hes in the army!! that doesnt bother me in anyway. in told my dad and his fiancee and they were fine considering my stepsister is going out with his little brother, so they know the ...

I'm beginning to see him in a different light - is 4 years too much of an age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - I have this friend who is 15, he will be 16 in a few months but recently, after not noticing him for so long i have started to see him in a different way. I really do believe i have such strong feelings for him. Like i could just talk to him all day ...

Could my boyfriend be a paedophile (or an ephebophile)?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

3 January 2008 (F) - I'm afraid I might be dating a peadophile. My boyfriend (nealry 20) is attracted Hannah Monatna who is 15, and I am so grossed out I can't even kiss him let alone make love to him. He makes jokes about him being an ebophile to his friends online (he ...

She asked me in a hypothetical manner if I'd marry her. Any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

3 January 2008 (M) - i am writng you guys cos i trust u.a while ago i wrote to you about a lady that was very close.she lives in glasgow and me in stoke.she is THE most amazing lady i have ever met.i'm 42 she 56.its only numbers.ok.yesterday. hypethetically, i think ...

My mother controls me. How do I get her to stop doing this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

3 January 2008 (F) - Me and my ex have been talkin again and we want to get back together the only thing it long distance plus an age difference of 4 years and it only ended a month ago but my mum is refusing to let us get back together and wont let us to it till i'm ...

I'm so obsessed with this teacher at engineering school that it's scary! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

2 January 2008 (F) - Hello, Well… I don’t know how to begin. I’m French, so I hope my English is correct and that you will understand me. You’ll probably think my story is common… honestly, I don’t know. I am a nineteen years-old student. In September, I entered an ...

I'm 13, he's 18. We have a 4 1/2 year age difference... Too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

2 January 2008 (F) - Im 13 and my boyfriend is 18. We live at least 8 states apart. We knew each other when he lived here, but he had to move away because his dad was relocated. I know that it's illegal for us to be going out, but we're not having sex or anything. My ...