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writes:ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots of each other, cos our families are good friends. Im not 100% sure that she really likes me but if i had to guess i would say she does. Her mum and dad just separated also, they have been on holiday with us once and are coming again soon, she lives only 5 minutes away atm. i dont want to do anything sexual until: a) she is old enough and b) she is completely ready. My question is how should i go about making our relationship something more? I text her a few times a week and we see each other every couple of days so i do spend lots of time with her and we just get on so well. The thing that worries me is whether she would feel comfortable or not cos i dont want to alienate myself from her or her mum or any of my friends. We always sort of semi-flirt with each other and are not afraid to touch each other casually, jus out of fun nothing else. she is always really nice to me, more so than other ppl and i just dont know how or when to take it further cos i have never felt so natural with a girl before and i cldnt bare seeing her being with someone else. Plz help thx
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reader, hello1 +, writes (20 January 2008):
 So what? its still very strange you lust over a 12yr old girl. Why can't you stick to your own age group? are you so child like you can't understand teenagers your own age? Keep away from kids and start growing up, unless you like children? then you need to get help.
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reader, speedcat  +, writes (20 January 2008):
please hunny your human. im trying to tell you honestly your making a mistake. working in a prison i see many young men put away for this....only trying to help good luck.
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reader, speedcat +, writes (20 January 2008):
You need to stop dead in your tracks......your looking at jail time and a reputation of a sex offender. trust me with this one i work at a prison...walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so as i tried to make clear i dont want to do anything illegal and WONT get arrested because i won do anything like that
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (18 January 2008):
 She is only 12. She is still a child. If you mess around with her, you could get into BIG trouble with the law.
Wait until she grows up, ok? If you care about her, you will do what is BEST for her.
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reader, bayleex +, writes (18 January 2008):
 I think you should leave this relationship until she is old enough. She is only 12 she is still only a child really.
What you need to think about is what would you do if it was your sister in a relationship or flirting with a 17 year old?
Still remain friends because there is nothing wrong with that but leave the flirting and relationship until she is old enough. Because to other people it could be seen as you are forcing her into things she doesn't want to do.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (18 January 2008):
I'm 18yr old, my sister is 12. If I found out she was dating an 17yr old guy I would go crazy. You need to get help. There is nothing attractive about a 12yr old, NOTHING. I promise you she's still a kid mentally, Why don't you want an girl your age? whats so wrong with going out with an teenage girl? And do you expect me to believe you wait 4 years till she's legal?? HAHA
I hope to God that she dosen't go out with you, that she isn't that stupid to think its normal an 17yr old fancies her.
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