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writes:How do you get a man more interested in sex and intimacy? My boyfriend aged 40 is only really interested less than once a week. If I say I am finding that really hard and not enough it increases for a while but then drops back again. What can he or I do to increase his sex drive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): I suppose the crux of the matter is that you haven't reached your sexual peak yet and he's a little past his.
This is a common problem when two people are of different ages. He's happy with things the way they are and you're feeling a little unfulfilled.
Dress sexily at bedtime. Go to work on him. Get him in the mood. Men are very visual creatures and the odd nice surprise at bedtime usually works wonders. I suppose it depends on his particular likes and dislikes, but stockings and suspenders with shiny stilettoes does it for me. Red and black is a good mix, all hidden under a dressing gown. Flash that at him and I doubt he'll be able to resist the temptation!
Hope it works for the two of you!
Phil
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 January 2008):
 Get enough sleep , exercise and eat the right foods for a healthy sex life.Watch more porn , have more visuals in the bedroom.Sometimes it is age , stress and libido which contribute to his low sex drive. Read this article a href="http://www.pinksuzie.com/2007/09/09/not-having-enough-sex/"Not having enough sex?//a
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