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Is it possible to have a connection with an older acquaintance?

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Question - (5 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *iden111 writes:

i think i'm in love, i mean i know it for sure. The problem is that she's way much older than me. At least this is what she's telling me everytime we meet. She used to be my nanny, i know it sounds ridiculous, but she was more like a companion, i was already 10 and had to spend summer holidays without my parents.

I haven't seen her for five years and now ... bam! i meet her at the halfpipe!????!!! and she's just awesome! i've spent the best holidays of my life with her and her friends. I know she really likes me, but she still sees in me that boy from 5 years ago. i'm not him anymore, what can i do?

first i wanted to let it go, but i really CAN'T!

please, please, if there is anyone to help me... it's killing me

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A female reader, AJ jess ^..^ United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2008):

AJ jess ^..^ agony aunthey hun i can see how this is distressing you, exactly how much older than you is this lady? i think that you have feelings for her because she has looked after you and cared for you perhaps when others havnt, if you send me a message to do with how much older she is then i would be able to help you more xoxo

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (6 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntJust keep on being friends with her. Keep love out of it till she is ready for it.She needs more convincing and you need to give her more time to understand that you are no more that small kid.Take things more slowly and don't rush things.Everything takes its time..

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