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writes:I just met this guy three weeks ago. He is 6yrs younger than me. I love him but the age gap gives me problems. I'm a single mother of a 15yr old son while he has 11yr old son and 8yr old daughter from his previous relationship which he chose to raise in his family. He is already talking marriage b4 June 08 and told his mom about me. He is very jealous and overprotective and he admitted to that. He invited me to a function in the last minute but I already had plans and he was understanding, second function again I couldn't go because I already had plans and now he is furious. He is no longer talking to me like he used to. No calls, sms's or visit at my office. What should I do?
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reader, bc2283  +, writes (26 February 2008):
guys like this don't change, he probably don't have friends either right? be careful
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reader, Chippy2  +, writes (25 February 2008):
RUN from him - You met him 3 weeks ago and you are in love and he wants to get married by June of this year and he is acting this way? WHAT the ? You don't see the HUGE RED FLAGS????? He is immature for sure - read some of the posts here on abusive men - and 6 yrs is a no big deal age difference - it is the people who are together that either make it a problem or not - Good Luck
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 he just sees this unavailability as rejection from you, give him some time to cool down. he is slightly younger so his reactions to different things may not be wat your used to you know? give him time he is just feeling a little stood up, next time is happens cancel your other plans, three times rejecting is not good for his ego!!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Wait till his anger blows over and he will come back to you. If you have apologized, there is not much you can do. The next time , you should go to his functions and cancel your other plans ,no matter what. By not going to his functions , he interprets it as your rejection of him. It could be taken personally.
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