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gazzieb
writes:hi, i recently been hanging around with a girl, i really like her but im 16 and she is 13 is this wrong if i was to ask her out cos of the age difference? bearing the fact that i dont want sex i just want her Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): hi, its not wrong to like her but dont expect anything from her other than being your friend she is a bit young, and you probably want different things, wait until your a bit older before you do anything that you may regret just stay friends for now and then ask her out when your sure you like her and its going somewheregoodluk
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reader, Lil girl lost +, writes (15 April 2008):
Hey its perfectly fine im 12 and im going out with a guy whos 22 i lied about my age to him in a pub but i got pregnant and had to tell him. go ask her out dude and as for the sex thing wait till she wants it ok if you make love make sure you keep it secret hope its true love xx fearne xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Hi, i'm fourteen and i really like an eieghteen year old. Its not wrong for you to like her and ask her out. She proberly likes you to. Don't have sex with her even if she says yes i don't mind because if the guy i liked asked me out and then after a few mouths asked me to have sex i might say yes because of the fact i might loss him. Don't take advartage of her, when she's sixteen then have sex for now kiss and hug. Its more fun that way. Also it gives you something to look forward too.
Ask her out and ignore what hello1 said shes proberly jeslous as no one likes her trying to deni you love.
Good luck also sorry if spelling is wrong!!!.
Love your never know!!!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): if you like her for who she is and just want to go out with her and don't want sex then i don't see anything wrong in that.i am 13 and like someone who is 15. I asked my friends if they thought i was to young to like someone of that age, some of them said yes and some of them said no.(i'm still trying to figure that out) i hope that this helped you!
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reader, smexii1313  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 im 13 and my ex is 17 and we broke up a month ago we wre going out for 2 and a half months.But he got scared cause of the age.But what i dont get is that he loves me.and i love him and i hope things work out for you guys.cause you shouldnt care what other people think if you care about her and you will treat her right then go for it.dont let anyone stand in the way of your feelings.youll regret it if you do.but just remember that shes only 13 and you need to take things slow with her.you have to be patient if your not then its not going to work out cause shes oing to get scared trust me i know ive been through it twice.but my point is is that its not the greatest news for a 16 year old to be like or me in love with a 13 year old but you also cant help who you fall in love with you cant choose you just do......i hope this advice has helped you... smexii1313
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reader, LethalInjection-x + ♥, writes (30 January 2008):
 Perfectly fine, and to the person who implied it would only be slightly ok if you were very immature, boys mature slower so a 15/16 year old boy could and would have similar interests/thoughts to a 13/14 year old girl.
You said you don't want sex with her, so go for it. I wish you luck hun, ignore anyone who tries to imply it's a bad thing.
x
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reader, Dawnie +, writes (27 January 2008):
 It's ok to go out with this girl, but remember she is underage. You may not want sex at the moment, but that could change as you are maturing now. Respect her, and wait until she is 16 before having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): No it isnt wrong, but dont have sex until she is 16 or you are in deep trouble. Just be kids and do kids stuff and dont try to rush into adult stuff, that will come soon enough.
take care
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reader, hello1 +, writes (27 January 2008):
 Yes it's wrong and maybe you should get help. Why would you want an 13yr old? there's alot of diffrences between you two, in teenage years a few years is alot. Your maturity levels are at diffrent stages, unless your really immature for your age.
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