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writes:I am 22 and I have been friends with a beautiful woman who is 38. I think it is time to take our relationship to the next level. We have been friends for a few years. We have done many things together including hiking, cooking, movies, dinners, etc. A few months ago she relocated to a new geographic area. She says that she has a guest room and has invited me to visit her. I have my ticket and in a few weeks I will go see her. She asked me to think about what sites and things I would like to see when I visit. Beside the local sites the one I really would like to see is her. I would really like to have sex with her. I guess it is normal to want sex with an older woman? Are there better ways to express an interest/ request sex with an older woman? I don‚t know if saying "do you want to have sex?" is the best approach. Perhaps saying "I would really like to have sex with you" would be better. However, there may be a better approach. What are some of the aspect of sex with a younger man that an older woman mayenjoy? Perhaps sex with a younger man would make her feel attractive and younger. As a man there are aspects of sex that I would enjoy with an older woman and in particular her. What are some potential obstacles to having sex with an older woman? How can they be overcame?If we make it is it important that her take control? Letting her take command seems natural. How important is it to prolong the foreplay with an older woman to an extent where we can have some anticipation of a exciting sexualintercourse? With an older woman how important is it to spend time relaxing and romantically kissing once we have finished? Any information aboutsatisfying her sexually?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): I recently ended a fling with a 20 year old man. He was very attractive and was pursing me strongly I couldn't resist his charm. This was my first experience with a younger guy and I didn't know what to expect. It does feel kind of nice to be more sexually experience than your partner. However, it ended because we both didn't know where it was heading after the sex. We didn't want a serious relationship because he is young and i am recently divorce.And I didn't want a friends with benefit things because I had feelings for him. We couldn't just be friends because the sex got in the way. And we couldn't be sex buddies because the emotions got in the way.What i'm trying to say, is in your mind. It's only sex.But as a women, we want to know how you feel about us, what you want from us. We don't want to just be a piece of meat for your sexual fantasy. Since you guys were friends first, you should talk about it first. You should both make an agreement of where you both stand. That way no one feels used and hurt. I'm sure she is open to having sex with you, but you have to show your maturity emotionally too. That is very attractive to an older women. The best way is to take it very slow. Show her your interest. Make the first move, but don't just hop into bed.Give her kisses, hugs. then let it slowly build up depending how comfortable you feel with each other. Also, don't let her take all the control just becuase she is older. Sex is very intimate and it is different with the two people involved. What is important is communication. She will appreciate that from you and take you more seriously. But don't say "do yo want sex?" or "I really want to have sex" . I think she will be turned off. You have to show her you want her, and make her feel desirable. that is the key. Good luck.
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