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I am 20 and he is 16 is this ok???

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Question - (16 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, so im nearly 20 and i was wondering if it was wrong for me to date a guy that is 16 who will be turning 17 in december?(i live in california).

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008):

Principally a three year age year shouldn't be a issue. However I think then the age of consent in California is 18? If it is then you will have to wait a year before you can (legally) have sex but otherwise I don't see a problem x

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (16 August 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntI don't see anything wrong with it.

And legally spekaing, you're still ok.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008):

I agree with Kenny. If you both feel confortable with the age difference then there shold be nothing to come in between you two, apart from his parents which may not like the idea. But that would be a matter of time.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (16 August 2008):

kenny agony auntOk so in december he is going to be 17 and you will be 20, personally i don't think that this is to much of an age gap to be honest, its only a little over 3 years. If you are both ok with this small age gap then i don't see any reason why you both should not date.

Good luck x

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