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My friend says he does not want to be boyfriend/girlfriend yet., but we're intimate. I'm confused.

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Question - (16 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *nella writes:

he does not want to be boyfriend/girlfriend yet, wants to get to know each other. i dont know if the

problem is that i'm (almost)29 and he is 22. he is very affectionate towards me, he introduced me to his friends. he brought me to his new house. he does all the things i ever wanted my man to do....to care, respect, hold hands, hug, etc. when i kind of put it out there of possibility to be boyfriend/girlfriend he said he doesnt know what he wants yet! (we r intimate). i am confused! i never dated younger guy before! please help me understand!!! thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008):

Be very careful of these younger guys. Apparently the new thing is going after older woman because it's a challenge.

I too fell for one 12 years younger. He said all the right things to make me feel wonderful. We were intimate and i liked him and he became distant. He didn't want a relationship either.

They all play the game because they are young and are not ready to settle down. No matter how wonderful you are.

It is all about themselves, finding themselves, making them happy. Very selfish generation. They feel there is always someone better so why be with one person.

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