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*aniel1987
writes: I looked in my partner's inbox the other day and found explicit pictures that his ex had sent him. I know for a fact that his ex has been to visit him many times. The first I knew of was back in 2009. I have also seen pictures on his ex's Facebook page that show his ex at his house in sexy poses. Given this information, how likely do you think it is that he slept with his ex? I believe that he did, but I'd like to hear other people's opinions. I wasn't surprised to have recently found the explicit photos. I've been trying to shrug it off, but now I'm beginning to feel hurt, so much so that I've dreamt about it as well. Also, a few years back, he was viewing someone's profile on a well-known dating/sex site. This individual happened to come from Nottingham (many miles away from where he lives). I then found a bag full of clothes that had been bought in Nottingham. Do you think he cheated on me here too? Finally, he is currently texting this guy who he meets up with regularly at work. When his phone broke last week, he messaged the guy on Facebook in a panic, just in case he wasn't able to get hold of him. There was mention of something happening (presumably meeting up) on Wednesday. The guy has a girlfriend, but I think he might be bi. Do you think there's something going on here too? Thanks.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 April 2013):
 it doesn't matter what we think, clearly YOU think there is something going on.
the theme this week seems to be trust... do you trust him?
if not, then maybe it's time to end it....
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reader, queenadelaide  +, writes (25 April 2013):
There is clearly no trust in this relationship. Can you see yourself going through his inbox and his laundry to check labels for signs of cheating for the rest of your life?
I thought not.
Time to call it quits on this one...
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reader, CMMP +, writes (25 April 2013):
I have no clue... But if you're not the paranoid type your intuition is probably correct.
The question then becomes "why are you still with him?"
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